we have been married for 15 years and together for 20 years. There was a period that we split for 18 months due too me not fully understanding how depression affected my wife and affected me as a result. She has been diagnosed by a doctor as having depression and has been told that she would have to be on medication for the rest of her life in the form of a maintenance dose. The problem we are now encountering is that my wifes experience of anti-depressants in the past have left her feeling like a zombie which she doesn't want. How do I try and persuade the women that I love so very much to seek the medicine she requires? Is there different types of medication now, the medication she was on years back was Seroxat which produced some horrendous side effects which she doesn't want to experience again. Any help in this sensitive area would be greatly appreciated.