Spending some time on your self is also important. Consider changing your hair color, put on some self-tanner, or try an at-home facial. Studies have shown that women who have a tan actually feel happier, healthier, more rested, and confident. A facial and a change of hair color will help you feel and look fresher, helping to amp up confidence. The actual act of pampering oneself is also great stress relief, and can be cathartic in relaxing the body and soul.