People experience grief differently, yet despite these differences certain general patterns or phases can be identified. The loss of a loved one, or a close friend, is frequently met with an initial sense of shock that can last for hours or even a few days. Following the initial sense of disbelief emotions begin to stir. Dejection, sorrow, yearning, regret, and even anger and bitterness are common and normal. Over time the grieving person begins to settle a little. They may confide their...