I would love to be the kind of person who entertains easily, the kind who invites the neighborhood for a barbecue in the summer, or friends for a candlelight dinner on a Saturday night. I would look forward to selecting the menu, doing the shopping, and preparing special dishes. I would enlist Adrian’s help and together we would have fun putting together some appetizers and choosing the appropriate wine. When the guests arrived, I would greet them warmly and relax into the occasion,...