So Andrew Carnegie I'm not. Actually I have no idea how to "win" friends nor do I know how to influence people. I am not without skills but these are just not my specialty. I admit that I was going for the catchy title. I can tell you, however, about my personal experiences with trying to meet new people for the purpose of making friends.
I once read a definition of introversion which said that introverts derive their energy from being alone. I totally agree with...

