This ruse allows the perpetrator of the hoax to see all the nice things other members say about them (as a member) and bask in the sympathy of other members regarding their supposed loss (as the member’s friend/relative). It’s sad that someone needs this kind of attention, and unfortunately this can be devastating for the forum members. In some cases it can even trigger suicidal ideation in some members.
Sadly, the best way to handle this is to take everything on an online support group with a grain of salt. Along those lines…
Take All Advice with a Grain of Salt
Remember that the advice you read in an online support group most of the time is not from a medical professional. Before taking advice about treatment or medication especially, check it out with your doctor. Don’t blindly follow any advice you find online – do your research. Remember that some people online do have agendas. They may be selling something or in rare cases, are simply malicious. It’s disappointing to have to maintain your cynicism with a group of people who for the most part have your best interest at heart, but your well-being is paramount. Online support groups are a wonderful resource, as long as they’re used wisely.
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