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David Mendosa
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Medical Journalist Living with Diabetes and Author of Fitness and Photography for Fun, www.mendosa.com/fitnessblog

After earning a B.A. with honors from the University of California,...

David Mendosa

Thursday, March 22, 2007
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My wife, Catherine Lee Nord, died Tuesday morning of liver failure. It was a complication of her diabetes. She was 69. We had been married for 11 years.Here is the joyous Catherine as she was on June 20, 2006.She died in the intensive care unit of the University of Colorado Hospital in Denv...
  1. my condoences
    Teri Robert
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 05:42 PM
    I'm so sorry to read this. You and Catherine have been such an inspiration in both your work and how you lived. I hope your grief soon gives way to joyous memories.

    with prayers and a hug,
    Teri Robert
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  2. Prayers and Love
    Chris B.
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 06:05 PM
    Dear David,

    I was so very sorry to hear of Catherines passing. Much too early. We will miss Her. Our prayers and love are with you. Thanks to you both for your commitment to sharing your lives with us. You both continue to be an inspiration to us all.

    God Bless and hugs

    Chris Brouns

    Reply
  3. My thoughts are with you!
    Ginger
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 06:22 PM
    David, I'm sending you large hugs and heartfelt blessings to you and your family for the loss of your beautiful wife. Thank you for sharing her story with us. Much love, Ginger
    Reply
  4. Prayers
    geosim23
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 06:29 PM
    I am so sorry David. My prayers are with you.
    Reply
  5. Condolences
    Anonymous
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 06:49 PM

    Dear David,

     

    I'm so very sorry for your lost.  But I'm glad that you had a chance to meet your love - and I'm so glad that she had you at her side as she battled valiantly - I know she must have felt comforted by your love and tenderness. 

     

    Perhaps she'll see her home again - and her dog - from the place she's in now.  I really do hope so. 

     

    Sincerely,

    Nicole Purcell (http://ohsocurious.blogspot.com)

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  6. my condolences
    Debbie
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 07:24 PM
    I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Catherine.  My thoughts are with you. 
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  7. Your Beloved
    maddie2@earthlink.net
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 07:29 PM

    David,

     

    For you my heart breaks. I am so sorry and just wanted to tell you. And for Ember too a loss like this is sad beyond mere words.  I am registered David but in middle of blue line reading, too a break to read mail and here was this horrific news. I can look up my password later for now we are both, my son Stephen and I with you in heart and thought., MADELINE B OGLE PhD     MADDIE

    Reply
  8. your loss
    Penny
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 09:04 PM
    I"m so sorry for your loss.
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  9. Catherine
    Anonymous
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 09:22 PM
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  Thinking of you.

    Rachel (http://rachel76.blogspot.com)
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  10. I'm so sorry
    Gloria
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 09:30 PM

    David,

     

    Although we have never met, I feel a connection to you and Catherine because of the disease that we share.  You and your beloved Catherine are in my thoughts and prayers.

     

    Gloria

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  11. Condolences
    Scott Johnson
    Thursday, March 22, 2007 at 11:27 PM
    David,

    My deepest sympathies.  It is a terribly hard thing to go through.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Reply
  12. Catherine's death
    Vicki
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 12:25 AM
    My condolences to you, David. 
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  13. Our condolences
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 02:00 AM

    I remember our joy as we found each other later in life.  I know that your beloved would remind you of that joy.

     

    Please accept our condolences.  I hope that you find yourself surrounded by love and good support in the next few days (and weeks and months).  Grief is a terrible valley to walk through.  Please remember that we walk with you.

     

    Lori and Dave Rodewald

    vovhdiabetic.blogspot.com

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  14. So sorry
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 05:38 AM
    My sympathies for your loss.
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  15. Catherine
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 06:53 AM
    David, I am saddened to hear of the death of your beloved Catherine. I am sure you have some wonderful memories to help you through this sad time.

    Ozgirl
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  16. My sincere condolences
    Roy
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 06:56 AM
    Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. I hope that you can keep your vital work going in her memory, and will cherish the time you spent together
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  17. Catherine
    verdungal
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 08:16 AM

    I would like extend my deepest sympathy  to you.  May Catherine be your special "Guardian Angel"  as you continue to do your wonderful work.

    Joan Mercantini

    Verdun gal

     

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  18. In Memoriam
    Chrissie in Belgium
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 09:33 AM
    I am so very sorry David to hear of your loss!
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  19. In Memoriam
    Scott
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 12:12 PM

    David,

     

    I am very sorry for your loss.  Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

    Reply
  20. Sorry for your lost
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 12:27 PM

    Prayers and love

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  21. Catherine Lee Nord
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 12:59 PM
    I am sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. 

    I am a native Californian and even went to Alum Rock Elementary School. 

    I lived in the San Jose area for 17 years.

    Life can be strange in a lot of ways.  I met a person at Alum Rock that had been in the same elementary school with me in New Orleans.

    While a freshman at James Lick HS I wrote a term paper on John Browns attack on Harper's Ferry.  I now live about 12 miles from there.

    I know you made a decision and even changed your name:
    Joshua 24:14 “Now therefore, fear the Lord, serve Him in sincerity and in truth, ...
    15 But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

    Joshua 1:9  “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

    Sincerely,

    Frank Roy


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  22. sympathy
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 01:20 PM
    Dear David, I am so sorry for your lose.  I can't imagine how hard this must be on you.  Please know that even though we may not be here in person, many of us readers are with you in spirit pulling for you now.

    Megan  
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  23. What terrible news
    BernFarr
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 02:19 PM
    David

    I'm so sorry to hear about the death of your wife. I can't even begin to imagine how that must feel.

    This is a terrible disease and we must all work to fight it. Thank you for looking for support for Joslin, because that's certainly one of the centers for the fight.

    I hope that the hurt and pain begins to subside soon.
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  24. My condolences and deepest sympathy
    JasonJayhawk
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 03:07 PM

    Mr. Mendosa,

     

    You had a very special bond with your wife -- she was a part of the club that nobody likes to join.  I'm sure she taught you a lot in the past 11 years.  Wives tend to do that. :-)

     

    I can't imagine what it is like.  Take time to rest and keep writing.  You and your wife's work have touched, lengthened and improved many people's lives. 

     

    Just don't forget what she's taught you.  And keep exercising!

     

    JasonJayhawk

     

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  25. Condolences
    Bob Farnsworth
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 06:47 PM
    It is often hard to remember, even with diabetes, how fragile life is. There are so few people we get really close to in this life that I read with deep sorrow about your loss.

    I hope your work, and dearest memories, bring you comfort.
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  26. I am so sorry
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 10:58 PM
    David - may our prayers and thoughts be with you during this trying time. 
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  27. My sympathies
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 23, 2007 at 11:29 PM

    So sorry to read the news of your wife's passing. All best to you in this time of loss.

     

    Lyrehca

    Managing the Sweetness Within

    www.thesweetnesswithin.blogspot.com

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  28. My condolences
    Anonymous
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 05:34 AM
    Sorry to hear of her passing.

    Kevin
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  29. In Memoriam
    greyked
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 06:00 AM
    I wish you much strength for the time to come to bare your loss. Lodewijk
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  30. My thoughts are with you
    Gaelyne
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 07:37 AM
    G'day David. Just wanted to let you know that I read about your wife on the ADI mailing list and that you are in my thoughts and if you need anything (such as proof-reading) please feel free to contact me.

    Kindest Regards,
    Gaelyne
    gaelyne---at----videocam--dot---net---dot---au
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  31. My Deepest Condolences
    Jim Fitz
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 09:33 AM
    David, I just wanted to let you know my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wife. God Bless and know that there are many many people praying for you right now.
    Reply
  32. My condolences
    Lori
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 11:51 AM

    So sorry for your loss...

    Reply
  33. Condolences
    Anonymous
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 01:33 PM

    David, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Catherine.  She was a strong woman to have lived with this for so long.  Both of your work has been appreciated by many people already, and many more to come.

     

    take care

    TigerLily

    Reply
  34. Condolences
    Kassie
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 06:04 PM

    David,

     

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. 

    Reply
  35. Heartfelt Sympathies to You David
    Anonymous
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 06:58 PM
    I would like to be able to say something that would comfort you David but nothing special comes to my mind except that in our hearts is a very sprecial place for very special people and now you have an empty spot. Fill it with the joyful memories of your beloved Catherine. Be Well. . .
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  36. condolences
    clk
    Saturday, March 24, 2007 at 08:21 PM

    David,

    I am sorry to learn about the loss of your wife Catherine. I pray that God will strenghten you and give you peace in this time of sadness.  I am sure that he still has big plans for you.  We will all miss Catherine as she was a part of you and your ministry to those of us who share life with diabetes.  May your memories of Catherine bring you peace and happiness.

     

    cindy

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  37. Condolences
    ArtSweet
    Sunday, March 25, 2007 at 12:11 AM
    David -

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

    May her memory be a blessing.

    ArtSweet
    http://artsweet.wordpress.com
    Reply
  38. My Condolences
    Terrell
    Sunday, March 25, 2007 at 02:30 AM
    David, I am very sorry for your loss.

    Reply
  39. Condolences
    Anonymous
    Sunday, March 25, 2007 at 06:32 AM
    How terribly sad! I hope you are able to move on from this in a positive way. I wish you all the best. Caleb Murdock
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  40. thinking of you...
    Karen LaVine
    Sunday, March 25, 2007 at 12:13 PM
    and sending you a big virtual hug across the 'net.
    you've been through lots of tough times,  so glad you could be there for Catherine.

    karen lavine
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  41. My condolences
    Paula
    Sunday, March 25, 2007 at 08:45 PM

    David -

     

    I am so very sorry for your loss.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.

     

    Take care,

    Paula Ford-Martin

    Reply
  42. Your wife
    William Horn
    Monday, March 26, 2007 at 09:32 AM

    Sorry to hear of your loss.

    William

    Reply
  43. sympathies
    Anonymous
    Monday, March 26, 2007 at 04:11 PM
    My deepest sympathies on your loss.

    Denise Armstrong
    myfallfromgrace.net
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  44. condolences
    Marilyn at ADI
    Monday, March 26, 2007 at 05:56 PM
    Dear David, so many people never in their life find their soul mate.  You two were obviously blessed to have done that.  You are such a special friend to the diabetic community.  Your grief is our grief.  Please know many of us are holding you both in our prayers.  ((((Big hugs))))   Marilyn
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  45. Condolences
    Big_Dave_T
    Monday, March 26, 2007 at 06:21 PM
    Sorry about your loss.  Am here via Amy T's blog.  Keep the faith, keep the fight.  I'm sure it's what she would have wanted.
    Reply
  46. Condolences
    Alyne
    Wednesday, March 28, 2007 at 12:18 AM
    David:

    I am so sorry to hear about Catherine. May her memory be a blessing.

    Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    "Ha-Makom yenahem etkhem b'tokh sha ar aveilei Tzion vYerushalayim-

    Alyne


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  47. My sympathy
    Pat M.
    Wednesday, March 28, 2007 at 10:34 AM
    My deepest sympathy to you and your family, on your recent loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  48. Your Loss
    L. Kitchens
    Wednesday, March 28, 2007 at 02:53 PM

    David,

    I am very sorry for your loss. I have benefited from your website & magazine articles. Thank You.

    God cares for you. You are in my prayers.

    Reply
  49. My prayers are with you and your loved ones
    Anonymous
    Wednesday, March 28, 2007 at 10:03 PM

    I am so sorry to read about the passing of your wife.  Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. 

    With deepest sympathy,

    Stephanie Macomber

    Eau Claire, WI

    Reply
  50. Condolences
    Georgia Ann
    Thursday, March 29, 2007 at 02:04 AM

    This is my 1st attempt at searching for more information on Diabetes and I see that you have lost your loved one. 

     

    My thoughts are with you, dear stranger.

    Reply
  51. condolences
    tmm
    Thursday, March 29, 2007 at 10:45 PM

    David

    you've been such an inspiration for many of us...sending you and yours condolences at this time.

     

    Reply
  52. Your sad news
    Anonymous
    Friday, March 30, 2007 at 04:47 PM
        I've been receiving and reading your newsletter since I was diagnosed Type 2 three years ago. Although I have never met you I was very sad to hear of your wife's death.
    Through diabetes the two of you have been part of my life for some time. 

    My thoughts are with you.  Thank you for all the help and support you have given to others.

    Sheena
    Reply
  53. Your Loss
    Jan
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 04:09 PM
    Please accept my condolences. You and your wife sound like you were best friends and that is so special.
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  54. So sorry
    Anonymous
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 04:22 PM
    I'm so sorry.  I've been following your work for many years (I've been on cruzio for over 12 years and I remember you were on there).  I really feel for you in your loss.

    Laura

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  55. My sympathy for your loss
    lindalee
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 04:24 PM
    David, please accept this expression of my sympathy at your wife's passing.  Thru your Web site and the help you've given me since my diagnosis, I think of you as a dear friend.  You will be in my prayers. 
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  56. Thanks
    Anonymous
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 05:17 PM

    David, thank you for working so diligently on behalf of all of us who suffer from this 'invisible disease.' I have you to thank for raising my awareness of the glycemic index, new products and treatments, the importance of exercise and on and on. My doctor hasn't been so helpful!  

     

    Our beloveds never truly leave us in our memories, in the caress of the wind, the sound of a familiar song, a sunset or whatever simple joys you shared together. May it always be so.

     

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  57. We shall remember her
    Anonymous
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 05:31 PM
    In the rising of the sun and its going down,
    We remember her.

    In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
    We will remember her.

    In the opening buds and in the rebirth of spring,
    We remember her.

    In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer,
    We remember her.

    In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn,
    We remember her.

    In the beginning of the year and when it ends,
    We will remember her.

    When we are weary and in need of strength,
    We will remember her.

    When we are lost and are sick of heart,
    We remember her.

    When we have Joys we yearn to share,
    We remember her.

    So long as we live, they too shall live,
    For they are now a part of us,
    As we remember her.
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  58. in memoriam
    shelly
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 05:56 PM
    David,

    I've been reading your newsletter for a few years now, every since I was diagnosed. Your writing has helped me learn about my health and encouraged me to ask questions and seek alternatives.

    I'm so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. Ha-makom yenachem ot'cha b'toch she'ar avelei Tzion vi'Yerushlayim. May Gd comfort you in the gates of the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

    shelly
    Reply
  59. What sad news, so very very sad
    Haleh
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 06:05 PM
    Dear David, my heart goes to you so much at this time of grief. Catherine's soul will always be with you, I have no doubt.

    I wish you calm times ahead so you can get the grips with your life again.

    With affection.
    Haleh
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  60. Sympathy
    Sf507@aol.com
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 06:14 PM

    My deepest sympathy to you for the loss of your beloved wife. My heart goes out to you--across cyber space.

    Sharon

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  61. In Memorium
    Anonymous
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 06:35 PM
    I reach out to you, David, to share your grief in the loss of Catherine.  I am one who feels that I know you from your years of contribution to my life, through your diabetes directory, your participation in mailing lists, and now through your website. I was around your cyberspace when you met Catherine, and enjoyed the exuberance you communicated in your marriage.  I a small, but heartfelt way, I share your sadness at her loss.  Thank you for all you have given so generously to the diabetic community, and I hope that you can now take some support from the sympathy offered by those who have learned to care for you and yours.
    Reply
  62. Heartfelt condolences
    Vincie56
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 06:41 PM

    I have lost 11 members of my immediate family to this horrible disease and I was diagnosed 4 years  ago.  It is never gets easier.  I pray daily for a cure.


     


    My heart goes out to you at this time.  Be strong and cherish your memories.

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  63. you are brave
    mary feagins
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 07:10 PM
    you are very brave to share your intimate information with us, please accept my condolences.  mary feagins katy texas
    Reply
  64. your loss
    Anonymous
    Sunday, April 01, 2007 at 09:15 PM

    I am very sorry for you loss. It is never easy.


    You are in my prays.


    Manuel Martin

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  65. Sorry about your wife
    Anonymous
    Monday, April 02, 2007 at 09:39 AM
    So sorry to hear about your wife.  My deepest sympathy to you and the rest of her family.

    M. Temple
    Reply
  66. David
    Anonymous
    Monday, April 02, 2007 at 09:59 AM
    David: I'm very sorry.
    Reply
  67. Condolences
    Anonymous
    Monday, April 02, 2007 at 05:51 PM

    David,

    please accept my very heartfelt condolences.  I was away from your blog for a few days and found this shock today.  My heart and prayers go out to you and for Catherine.

    You help us all so much with your writing: may I just hope that expressions of sympathy from your internet community serve as some consolation to you in these sad times. 

    Warmest regards,

    Peter James

    Reply
  68. So sorry
    Anonymous
    Tuesday, April 03, 2007 at 04:28 PM

    for your loss.  Your story is so familiar to me, as I lost my 69 year old father in December 2006 from almost the same thing.

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  69. Loss
    Carl
    Thursday, April 05, 2007 at 02:09 PM

    Hello David,

     

    I am very sorry to hear about your wife's passing. Although I didn't know her this news has made me feel very sad.

     

    It is easy to lose sight of how vulnerable we all are, espacially with this desease.

     

    I am glad to see that you are continuing on with your work. Your writting has been very valuable to me over the years. I always tell people that I get my best diabetes information from David Mendosa.

     

     

    Reply
  70. Condolences
    Anonymous
    Friday, April 06, 2007 at 02:44 AM
    I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear wife.  I have been reading your articles for the last 5 years since I was diagnosed with diabetes.  I was very sad today to get your latest newsletter which spoke of her death.  My thoughts and prayers  go out to you.  Sally in Chicago
    Reply
  71. To you who greive.
    Anonymous
    Friday, April 06, 2007 at 05:17 AM
    How blessed you both were to have found each other.
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  72. Catherine
    Ressy
    Friday, April 06, 2007 at 10:33 AM

    I had the privilege of knowing Catherine as another avid sewer and collector of fine fabrics. 

    She will be missed by our group.

     

    Ressy

    Evil Fabric Queen

    Reply
  73. your loss is our loss
    Anonymous
    Sunday, April 22, 2007 at 03:48 AM

    hi David

    Sorry to hear about Catherine .

    Although we are at the other end of the  world , in Australia, we share your  pain . 

    Our prayers are with you .

     

    Jeevan

    Reply
  74. Dam! continued
    Anonymous
    Monday, April 23, 2007 at 05:18 PM

     Hit me hard, can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Please hang in there man. You are in my prayers.  

     

    Jim Rodgers

    jim5757@hotmail.com

    Reply
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