living without insurance

hi gina,

  steve's insurance finally kicked in, so i have insurance now.  as far as state help after the divorce. i will still be bringing in too much for financial help but not enough to pay for what i need.  so i will still have to have steve's financial help.  he thinks that i can get free or cheap insurance through the state.  i checked with the lawyer and he said that it would still come to him paying for the isnurance.  the lawyer also said that i'm better off staying married.  to be honest i wouldn't be able to live on what i would get with both s.s.d. and from what i would get per month from steve.  i guess i would be one of those ones who falls in the cracks.  he has taken everything else that is important to me i just can't lose my home too.  it's been a rough couple of years but i think i'm starting to get a handle on things.  now i just have to figure out what to do about my marriage.  what's more important to me, giving him his divorce or staying married and having insurance.  i'm just taking my time and thinking everything out real good before i do anything.