The Patient's Perspective

Also, honest and direct communication is key.  Don't expect your spouse to read your mind.  If it bothers you when they indulge in foods you shouldn't eat, then talk about it.  If you need extra understanding about a particular issue, ask for it.  Most people are receptive when someone they love says, "I need you to support me."  Sometimes we have to be vulnerable and seek the love and understanding that week need.  It's not fair to feel like the victim of an unsupportive spouse if we don't take responsibility for telling our loved one what they can do to help. 

How do spouses of diabetics feel about this disease?  I'm going to pick Dennis's brain and report on his thoughts and feelings next week.  Stay tuned for The Loved One's Perspective.