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Do you see Teens alone or with the parents?
Katharine
Tuesday, July 21, 2009 at 03:14 PMre: Do you see Teens alone or with the parents?
Dr. Fran Cogen
Tuesday, July 21, 2009 at 09:44 PMHi Katherine: I appreciate your thoughtful comments. It always amazes me that medical practice may be so diverse in different areas of the globe. As you know, there is no standard of practice in terms of seeing patients separately from the parents in the US. In your situation, it appears that the Diabetes team caring for your son is not providing treatment unique to him but rather generalized to all type 1 patients. This is not family-centered care. They also seem to be cutting corners a bit and accepting less than optimum diabetes self-care skills. I am also assuming based on your comments that you do not get a chance to discuss your concerns with the diabetes team. In my opinion, that is not acceptable. I can understand seeing the teen separately from the parents; but there should be some form of debrief wherein there is a dialogue between the treating team, parent(s) and teen. It seems, therefore, that your current providers are not meeting your son's needs. Are there any other multidisciplinary diabetes teams to whom you could bring your son? What about one of the academic centers throughout UK? I know Kings College in London is very good as is Dr. Andrew Hattersley's program (not sure where in UK). I think it must be worse as a trained physician to observe the short-comings of your diabetes care providers: very frustrating, indeed. If you wish, I could check out my American Diabetes Association reference that may list UK diabetes teams. Let me know how I may assist you, if at all possible.
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Anonymous
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 12:23 AMHi Dr. C,
What a timely posting:) As a mom of a 16 year old who literally went through the visit today as you describe it in your post, I thought you might want to know that I did not ask my daughter what you and she discussed privately, and she did not volunteer the information herself. She did seem to come out in a good mood, and so I can only assume that the private consult went well. Thank you for ignoring my tears this morning (as I was blowing my nose during the consult!) I know that my being upset annoys my daughter (Oh mom!), and appreciate your picking up on this.
Dr. C --you are a remarkable clinician and woman. I hope that the readers out there know just how good you are!!!!
Mrs. K
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doctor visits with teens
Shaedae
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 03:54 AMfirst a bit of history. I have suffered greatly from inept, uncaring, predjudiced and unethecal doctors. 1 example of many: after my vaginal hysterectomy, EVERY doc who did a pelvic on me exclaimed incredulously with grate disgust, "WHO did your surgey?" I relied, " Dr. X. Why, is something wrong?" To which all the docs, havig regained their composure, responded, "Oh no. Everything's fine." ?????????
I was finally diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes 2 years ago. More doc issues: I had been complaining of of numbness in my palms and the bottom of my feet for YEARS! For the last 2 years before the diagnosis, whenever I was hopsitalized which, is so many times I can't count them, my blood was tested and I was give insulin shots, but was told I was not diabetic.???????
The best doctor I ever had told me to never go to an apt alone. He said if nothing else, your friend could be takng notes as you often forget aftewards some of what the doc tells you. He also said that even docs have bad days when they are..... not quite up to par. If you have a friend with you, ie a witness, he will make sure to be up to par for you.
I have a son and a daughter, ages 30 and 29. I home schooled them both, and we are very conservative Christians. So, for all of the above reasons, I would NEVER let my children go to the doctor alone. I left the room for procedures for my son, just before puberty. My daughter still had me stay in the room for procedures until age 19 or there abouts. That is also when she started sometimes telling me I didn't need to come. I had started asking when she turned 18. At 18 my son left for boot camp and I didn't go with him anymore.
More than once, I have had to argue and almost make a scene to get the real issue evaluated when a doc 'latched onto' a couple of symptoms and made a 'diagnosis' that was not accurate.
I would like to ad that I know all docs are not bad. Also, for the past 10 years I have had to use low income clinics. It shouldn't make a difference, but it does. Having had health insurance in several states and used low income clinics in several states, I can tell you that there is a MAJOR dfference in care.
re: doctor visits with teens
Katharine
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 10:05 AMHi Fran,
Thanks for your reply. The situation is disgraceful but London would be too far away to travel for me. It does seem to be a matter of poor leadership at consultant level. On various forums I have corresponded with other parents and Bournemouth/ Brighton seemed to be providing particularly good service to children, adolescents and their parents. Most others are having the same problem as I am. It is great to hear that it isn't the same for everyone. Keep up the good work.
The main issues that I have are what can I reasonably expect with the hormonal upheavals of adolescence over time. I am seeking normal blood sugars as far as possible but the unpredictable on and off vigorous dawn phenomenon is the big issue that is limiting our success.
Katharine.
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Ann Bartlett
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 08:43 PMKatherine another option is to find a CDE who does remote advisement. Someone to check into is here in the states, Gary Scheiner. Gary works has worked with patients outside of this country b/c diabetes care is universally the same!

Gary wrote "Think Like a Pancreas". It's a book I suggest often to teens leaving for college. Just a great reference! I've used Gary's office for CDE care for 5 years and they have been the most reliable source, many times better than my endo, whom I love! Gary and all his staff have diabetes, which makes them a group that think s the problems through with proficiency. Gary's website: Integrateddiabetes.com
Just food for thought, if care isn't easy to find then try something different!
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Dr. Fran Cogen
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 09:59 PMkatharine: adolescence, as you know, is associated with insulin resistance, the dawn phenomenon and emotional upheavals. You are right to expect increased variability of blood sugars. Use of basal/bolus therapy with the multiple injections of rapid acting insulin with lantus or levemir as basal insulin might help. The pump might even be better as you could adjust basal rates to match the timing of the dawn phenomenon.
Anne Bartlett's idea is great and there are also may be ways to participate in telephonic diabetes care.
Fran
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Katharine
Thursday, July 23, 2009 at 08:58 AMThank you both. I am familiar with Gary's book and it is a great idea for me to speak directly to an experienced educator who shares similar goals regarding normalisation of blood sugars.
My son is not on a pump but is on a very advanced basal bolus regime which has more in common with pumping than regular basal / bolus routines.
His last hbaic was 6.7% compared to 5.3% 18 months ago. In Scotland the mean hbaic for his age group is 9.5% for NHS treated young men and women so this gives you some idea of why there is complacency about blood sugar control from the hospital side.
Even if the answer from Gary's team is that I have to just sit out the hormonal upheaval effects for some time then at least I will know I have done everything that I reasonably can.
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Dr. Fran Cogen
Thursday, July 23, 2009 at 12:15 PMkatharine: 6.7!! That is a fabulous A1c for any adolescent: a 3 month estimated glucose average of 145.59 mg/dl. My realistic goal for an adolescent with raging hormones is 6.5-7.5%. Even under 8% during this period would be marginally acceptible in view of adherence issues and risky teenage behavior. So, I think you should consider yourself an expert! And btw, as you know, mulitple daily injections can perform as well as the pump: only exception is maybe, less hypogycemia on the pump due to multiple basal rates.
Fran
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Dr. Fran Cogen
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 09:52 PMThank you for commenting on your experiences. I am sorry that the care you and your family has received has not been consistently first rate. I respect your comment that another person present during the doctor visit might be a good idea to record information for the patient. In order to allow my family and patient to actually listen to the discussion, I do the writing of important points on a separate paper and tear off a carbonized sheet to give to the family so that they could remember everything after the visit. I then sent a typed dictation summarizing the visit in detail.
There is no one way to communicate with patients and families. And, I am sure that some parents in my practice will want to remain with their teenager during the visit. That would be ok; but I think it is important to offer the choice.
Best of luck in future medical encounters,
DrC
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Hi Fran,
Thanks for bringing up this important subject.
I am the mum (mom in US!) of a 17 year old young man who has had type one diabetes for five years and I am also a doctor working in primary care. I have been on both sides of the fence and can see both points of view.
I think the problem for the doctor is being able to have the uncensored views of the adolescent. The problem for the parent is that they have primary responsibility for the welfare of their child. With diabetes the big deal is that high and low blood sugars render the diabetic less able and sometimes incompetent to deal with ongoing problems.
In my local area the policy is to have parents in the consultations till the child is 14 and then to totally exclude them. This means that the parent is left alone to deal with any crises that may develop due to eg any changes in medications. Alternatively it does give the diabetic team free scope to attempt to brainwash the child into accepting eg that they can deal with their diabetes alone, that high carb/low fat diets are beneficial, that lots of insulin in any one injection will cover any amount of carb, that NHS (we are in the UK) are an appropriate and correct source of dietary advice, that monitoring bs three times a day is fine, that two types of injected insulin are enough, that mornings are the correct time to assess basal insulin etc.
Unfortunately, most of the opinions given by diabetic staff is at best inaccurate and simplistic and at worst detrimental. Fortunately the internet has revolutionised patient care and has helped the parents who want their child to live a long and complication free life.
As a member of this forum, Fran, I strongly suspect that you are NOT shoving silly and misguided information down childrens' throats but what do you think we can do when this is happening to our children?
What I have done is say that I am dissatisfied with their crap behaviour and that I am restricting visits to 50% of those requested. If their crap behaviour escalates I will restrict his attendances more. (You could say communication has completely broken down!)
Thanks,
Katharine.