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Amerishape helped me! I was having a problem with my spouse. He loves pizza........   You've identified your weight-loss goals. You've declared them to others. You've talked the talk, and now you're walking the walk by exercising regularly and making healthy changes to your diet. Your efforts are starting pay off. You've lost some pounds, feel energized, and are committed to staying the course. Why then, does your loved one not seem as excited about your self-improvement as you? Maybe he or she is always trying to persuade you to skip a workout, or always suggests pizza. Is your partner subtly sabotaging you on your journey to total health? If you feel this might be the case, ask yourself why. It doesn't mean that the person doesn't care about you. It could be that he or she is feeling insecure and threatened at the prospect of your transformation for the better. Your partner might be worried that if you lose weight and get healthy, you'll leave and find someone better. More likely than not, this person has no idea that he or she is undermining your resolve. Sit down together and assure him or her of your love and then talk about what's going on. Give examples of behavior he or she's exhibited that has sabotaged you in the past. Keep reassuring this person of his or her value and importance in your life.   Once this person clearly understands the affect they are having, maybe they'll be able to be a supporter and not a saboteur. In the end, they wants what best for you. They just may not know how to best go about it.   Yours in Health and Fitness, Cindy Jackson Thank You Amerishape