Vasectomy and Vasovasostomy - Considerations

The Influence of Short-Term Stress

Vasectomy should not be undertaken in response to temporary stressful situations that might block the desire for children. Such conditions may include illness, temporary financial crisis, death in the family, or birth of a child. Couples should wait through such short-term stresses or seek counseling or psychotherapy to be sure that they are not making a decision they will later regret.

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All Future Scenarios. Before deciding on a vasectomy, the couple should consider all future scenarios for their life together, such as the following examples:

If a couple already has children, how would they feel about a vasectomy if one of their children died?
If financial stress is triggering the decision for a vasectomy, would improved affluence increase their desire for children?
How would the man consider the vasectomy if his current relationship ended, either by divorce or the woman''s death?

Emotional Implications for the Man and Woman

The word "sterilization" has a deep emotional connotation for many people. Even though a couple may rationally accept the idea of a vasectomy, it is extremely important for each partner to be as open as possible about any negative feelings they might associate with the procedure. Such feelings on the part of either partner can have devastating consequences on a relationship if they surface only after the procedure has been performed. Openness with each other is imperative in order to make a decision that is clear of any hidden apprehensions. Neither partner should be too embarrassed to request counseling if the emotional aspects involved in making the decision are too difficult to solve between themselves.

What the man may be feeling:

A man may have a poor self image, including concerns for his own physical health or sexual ability. Such men are likely to have a difficult time adjusting psychologically to vasectomy.
A man may not actually really want the procedure but may not want to confront a partner he loves who wants him to have it.

What the woman may be feeling:

A woman might believe, incorrectly, that a vasectomy is emasculating, but she might not want to express this idea to her partner.
On the other hand, some women fear that vasectomy may make their partner more attractive and encourage outside affairs. (Research from the 1970s indicates that married men who have a vasectomy are no more likely to indulge in extramarital sex than fertile men.)

Sperm Banking

Storing frozen sperm in a sperm bank before vasectomy might enable the patient to have children later. Before the vasectomy, the patient collects sperm, which are frozen and stored until he wants to have a child. In one study, 1.5% of men who had stored sperm later used it for conception and most were successful. Other studies have shown a lower success rate, however, and it is a very expensive process. Experts believe that a patient who wants to bank sperm should probably reconsider his decision to have a vasectomy because such a concern may indicate doubts about giving up his ability to father a child.