I am a 35 year old male, duh. Anyway, my doctor found nothing wrong with me, neither did the psychologist. I can have a quality erection if I masturbate and sometimes also with my spouse. Unfortunately, there are weeks, sometimes months where I cannot have an erection with my significant other. This is so frustrating that I hope sometimes that she leaves.
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Hi awl15,
You've seen a doctor, but have you seen a urologist? While online resources are no substitution for the advice of your doctor, there are some links to information online here that you might find useful when asking questions during your doctor visits.
First of all, it might be good for you to read the overview about Erectile Dysfunction. How it affects the body, some of the symptoms, medications that are used to treat erectile dysfunction and treatments available.
Secondly, there is a section about lifestyle and psychological causes. Since you have already seen your psychologist, this might not apply to you, but there might be information here that you might want to ask your doctor about.
I hope there is something in these links that you find helpful. It might be good to talk this out with your wife too. I am sure she is as frustrated as you are, but her frustration is probably because she wants to help and doesn't know how. If you are able to be open with her and talk to her about what is happening, you might find this less stressful.
Above all, don't give up. There are alot of people from all walks of life on these message boards dealing with the same thing you are dealing with. It's possible you might find something that works for you and perhaps you can share your experiences here for others. Likewise, there might be others here who have advice to help you get through your issues. The community here is a great resource for advice and information.
Take care and please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing!
Vicki M