Erectile Disfunction - Heres my scenario, somebody please help me!

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Thursday, December 27, 2007
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Okay heres the scenario,I'm currently 16 years of age. After going out with my ex girlfriend for 4 and a half months we finally had sex, but what I didn't know was this was going to ruin my reputation, confidence and self-esteem forever. I lasted under 2 minutes with her. About 5 months later...

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Brian
Tuesday, January 08, 2008 at 11:58 AM

Go and see you doctor and tell him the problem and get to see a specialist a Uroligist. Don't keep it to your self it only will get worse. Good Luck

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Photo Les
Tuesday, January 15, 2008 at 06:34 PM
I'm no doctor, but unless this continues, I would say you have nothing to worry about. When I first became sexually active at age 15, I would get so excited that I have actually ejaculated on my girlfriend's belly before I could get it in. I was totally embarassed as well but it was only a passing thing.

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Photo Les
Tuesday, January 15, 2008 at 06:36 PM
I'm no doctor, but unless this continues, I would say you have nothing to worry about. When I first became sexually active at age 15, I would get so excited that I have actually ejaculated on my girlfriend's belly before I could get it in. I was totally embarassed as well but it was only a passing thing.

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Vicki M
Tuesday, February 26, 2008 at 10:00 PM

Hi Robo,

I know that at your age you are probably hearing alot of folks say, "you are young, don't worry about it" and I am going to say the same thing. However, if you really feel something might be affecting your ability to perform, then it might do you some good to do some research so that when you see your doctor, you can ask those important questions. Nothing will take the place of your doctor's care in helping you to manage your health. But, you can (and should) ask lots of questions if there is something happening in your life that worries you.

So here are some links to information that you might find helpful. You have probably already read much of this but it never hurts to read it again.

There is a very good overview of erectile dysfunction located here. What it is, what causes it and what can be done to treat it. This section can give you an idea if the problem you are experiencing is physical or psychological. Here is a great video that can give you information about who might have issues with ED and what some causes are. In the video, the Doctor states that ED can be brought on by anxiety.

I would think that the pressure of performing for the first time with your girl at your age, could have possibly been the issue for you, but only you can tell for sure.

I hope this information helps. Stay in touch and let us know how you are doing!

Vicki M