Tuesday, March 03, 2009
i am a typical male i had a sexual relationship with a so called friend for around 2 years she's still single so am i.She calls herself a "B" which i see at times,selfish one, the trouble is she my sister best friend at the moment i see her regularly. Now i feel hurt, and angry about the way she treated me from the first time we met it was only a one night stand well suppose to be. Bye the way she does not talk to me much if at all, after seeing her ex who i have met.She shuts up when others are around or tells my sister boy friend about me.What should i say or get help i am trying to work through this mentally and just move on with life.
I had a similar situation a few years back and I felt the same as post traumatic stress victims must feel --I was angry - frustratated and finally had to get away from this person altogether to get over it--- Takes time and sometimes therapy-----Difficult when you have close friends related to this person -- Good luck and hang in there - time heals -- did for me....
Hi there Bobby
Hep, as a male we do like to sometimes bottle things up what type of therapy do you suggest?.I know that person has a connection with my family,but i sometimes see things thay may not see as a female does, how they treat your love ones differently in their own way.I think trust is a factor in this relationship in keeping conversions to one another then finding out the truth later can tell a different picture.