Intimacy and Impotency After Surgery for Prostate Cancer

My wife and I are just starting this journey of dealing with ED and how we can improve our intimacy and get back to enjoying the fun of sex again.  We are too young (58 and 57) to give up on sex just because of ED.  We would love to hear from other couples and men who are dealing with this issue.  We are reading a very interesting book, "Intimacy and Impotence" in which we have learned the three most important words are communicate, communicate and communicate.  We live in San Diego and would enjoy starting an ED support group for spouses who are looking for answers to their questions.  Would enjoy hearing from other couples and partners.  Steve