Bill - I wish that I had a great answer for you but I don't. However, there may be a few clues that could help with arriving at an answer. If you are able to reach orgasm more quickly when you masturbate this might indicate that there is something preventing the necessary stimulation of your penis when you are having intercourse. For example, excessive use of lubricants could cut down on the stimulation and prolong orgasm. It is also possible to reach orgasm without ejaculating and this can happen for a variety of reasons. If you have not consulted an urologist it might be helpful to do so in order to get the best advice on this matter.

Rick Wirtz

Rick Wirtz is a Psychologist, not a psychiatrist or medical doctor. Although the majority of Psychologists are not authorized to prescribe medications or give you specific advice about them, they typically have experience working with patients who take a variety of medications. The response above is not intended to diagnose or treat any medical or mental disorder. Any information given in a post about medication is for educational purposes only and primarily to aid you in having an informed discussion with your own physician.