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Q: I can't keep an erection

when i wake up i have an erection when me and girl are chillin and and so do something sexy or i look at her and think about sex i get an erection. but once we try to have sex i lose it. then when i get it back when i try to have intercourse i lose it again. I never had this problem befor and it's been like 5 months we been togather. she sexy she turn me on and i love her can you please tell me why i lose my erection when we try to have intercourse Yhanks Ulysses

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3/ 4/09 9:37am

Don't worry, this is perfectly natural and very common - especially in the early stages of a relationship. Things will improve as soon as you and your girlfriend get to know each other better. If, however, the situation persists, you should seek the help of a therapist. As a last resort, you could ask your doctor about taking some ED medication (e.g. phentolamine or an anxiety drug called trazodone), but I'm sure you won't need it. Good luck!

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4/ 9/09 2:29am

I can't keep an erection

when i wake up i have an erection when me and girl are chillin and and so do something sexy or i look at her and think about sex i get an erection. but once we try to have sex i lose it. then when i get it back when i try to have intercourse i lose it again. I never had this problem befor and it's...

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12/21/09 4:31am

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By uwill28— Last Modified: 12/24/10, First Published: 03/03/09