He is now 38 and has had this problem since his late teens. He keeps saying he will go see a doctor but it has been over two years we have been married and he is still putting it off and we have no sex life. Which is killing me because I have a lot of sexual energy. What can he take or is there anything I can do as a home remedy? Am I selfish for getting angry over this?
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Q: So what is a safe herbal remedy for ed for a guy who won't see a doctor and has no sexual desire?
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4/ 9/09 9:54pm
You are kind of in catch-22 when it comes to your husband's Erectile Dysfunction, in so much that he is the only one to do anything about it. You see us men are our penises and our penis is us. And if our penis don't work, neither do we. That is where your Husband is at these days, and I am sure this can be said about early on in your sexual togetherness. Way back when,when he either couldn't get an erection or couldn't maintain that erection long enough to bring you to an orgasm,and with each ongoing failure he just quite trying to please you. If he didn't do anything about it then, don't see that he'll be rushing out to do anything about it now either. You can put your foot-down and confront him,tell him that you need more out of the relationship than what you are now getting,"Sexual Companionship", Is what you need, want and expect,and as things stand, I don't see that your marriage will endue too much longer, sad to say,as he won't get off his duff and do something about it.
Have a nice Easter.
Doug.
4/ 3/09 6:19pm
He does need to see the doctor about the issue and trust me its not easy. I am a 29 year old married male, I've been with my wife total of 9 years and married for 2, recently I had the fairly the same problem, lack of sexual desire and sometimes it caused me not to get an erection. My wife would get upset because she thought she wasn't attractive anymore and that i was cheating on her which was not the case! this made me mad as well thus not resulting in intamacy, at first we talked obout it and i told her i would go see a doctor but i didn't for a while. Finally i decided i would rather save our relantionship and put up with a little embarransing doctor conversation. The doctor told me that there is A LOT of men young or old that suffer with some form of ED whether is physical or in most cases mentally. I couldnt belive i was one of them, I am 29, 5'8" 170lbs atheletic a guy that works out every day and in perfect health from what the doctor told me. The doc prescribed me levitra which makes all the difference!
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