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 Hi! Izzydee:  First off Izzy there are some great Web sites that can help you understand what is going on sexually with your body. The beginning of any treatment begins with knowledge. You are 50,years young and as us men age, well. So does the incidents of ED,Erectile Dysfunction. I am 81,years young but have lived with ED most of my adult life,so I know where you are coming from. Yes I wish that I too could have great sex everytime I jumpted into bed. I haven't seen a Urologist as of yet, dumb thing not to do, nor have I tried Viagra either, as it really should be taken under the care of a Urologist So here is what has worked for me, when it won't work. An orgasm for a man or a woman is an orgasm, and it doesn't really matter how that orgasm is induced, manually or orally it still is an orgasm. Me I like giving her an orgasm orally as it is the nicest way to say, " I love you". Also with the oral penis you can do much more than any old, blunt penis could ever do. Best part of it is that it takes the pressure off to sexually pleasure a woman's body. She's looking for that wonderful orgasm,and does it really matter how you bring her to that climax, but then it does matter to me that my upper penis can do the job that my lower penis won't or cannot do. And then I, like you, needs to seek medical advise to deal with my ED problem.