have herpes!

I was in your shoes 6 months ago. I had to tell 3 partners. I believe 1 gave it to me & the others could of been infected. As soon as i found out when i got out of the drs office i called the 2 males that i thought spread it to me. They were both in shock & said neither of them had it. I told them both to get tested. One got tested & the other didnt. I am scared 2 of my partners had. I am just not sure. Just be up front & honest with them. I mean unless u cheated then i can understand it would be hard to tell a partner u love & u slipped by accident.