Getting Diagnosed: "So You Have Herpes"

I was diagnosed with Herpes over five years ago, and in the time since I have found that the Internet can be a great resource for information as well as community-building.  I've never been interested in Herpes dating websites because I don't want my personal misfortunes to dictate how I choose a mate.  However, I have felt much relief and many a revelation from simple blogging sites such as this one.  I hope that as a regular blogger I can offer some insight into living with Herpes and help create a community in which people feel free and safe to ask questions, discuss topics, and tell their personal stories (which can be a great emotional release!) without feeling like they are defined by the virus.  We may be living with Herpes, but Herpes does not rule our lives.