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By Ashleigh Thursday, June 17, 2010

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I am in love with this guy.. but he has a girlfriend.. He is my best friend and claims to love me back (Yes in the romantic sense). But he refuses to leave hi girlfriend for me. I feel i am just something on the side but i cant leave him. he is the only real friend i have who knows about my problems and doesnt care. He gets annoyed when i get jealous of her. But i cant help it i want to be his number one. even as i type right now he is in the room with her doing god knows what and im crying. He doesnt care. What do i do?

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Anonymous

6/18/10 11:45am

hey ash,

if he is putting you second place and will not leave his gr or care about your situation is bc he loves you as a friend... you need to be proud of who you are and know that their is someone out their who will give you everything you need and more... also, your best bet, i hate to say it is, to leave him alone and move on unitl you do so your going to be stuck in this mind hell... stay strong and move on... if he knows your not their he may call if not then you knwo where you stsnd in his life....

cherry

6/21/10 2:46pm

hey girlie thats not love. right now u feel that way bc he knows if anything hes using that information to get what he wants. if hes not willing to leave her for you thats no body u want anyway. i know dealing with your condition is some what hard, but dont settle for less bc of it. if you didnt have this condition you might not even be concerned with this guy, but bc he knows its like you got to stay connected.Honey you have herpes ,but dont let it have you. It will take some time but you will learn to live with it. This condition will not kill you.

augusta, ga

10/11/10 7:40am

i was in that same situation and stook around hoping he would leave her. but in return hes getting the best deal out of all three of yall. if i was you i would leave him and her be because if yall dated he might do the same thing to you if u were his girlfriend. if he was a good friend he wouldnt put u in that a situation to ever hurt u anyway so he really dont care too much for u anyway. hes a dork and hes taking u for a ride. u dont need him. u sound so sweet and i bet u have so much to offer a even better man. god bless hun.

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