Fiancée and I were having oral sex and he had a tiny cold sore and a couple days later I found out that I had genital herpes. I still have my very first outbreak and it's all over and I have a lot of vaginal discharge that is really gross. I've been through a lot in my short life but this is the most pain I have ever been in. It hurts, it's embarrassing, and it has a terrible odor. So my advise is if you are going to have oral sex make sure that your partner does not have a cold sore and make sure the lips are totaly clear of anything that could turn into or be left over from a cold sore. I really hope you listen to this and it helps someone.