So now my biggest fear is that I will infect her. This would hurt me so much, but in saying that, I cannot be held to blame. I have been open and all the decisions have been left to her. All the risks we take are her risks. I cannot take responibility for that... nor should I. This is the beauty of being open with your partner.. If you tried to hide the fact you had herpes, well the strain that would put on you would be unbearable! It is so important to be honest from the beginning and put the choice in their hands, that way we need not feel too down if they are infected. Everyone is responsible for their own actions. I guess most people here contracted it from a partner they did not know had it. And we know that doesnt feel so good!
So, Be open, be happy, be loving. Good things will come.
Peace.
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