I have a mild case, will it be spread as a mild case?

I have a mild case of genital herpes.. I havent been tested but ive looked up several pictures and it looks identical just minutes ago.. Even though I was relieved that it was not a serious case, the fact that I have it is just overwhelms me in a negative way. I care not for myself but how the person I love more than anything would take it and how I can keep her from getting it. So my question is since I have a 'mild case' of genital herpes if I spread it to her by mistake would it be a mild case that she gets or can it be something more severe? If you know or can point me in the right direction it would be greatly appreciated, thanks!