Oral Sex & Genital Herpes

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Tuesday, April 15, 2008
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My boyfreind and I have just recently started having oral sex and 3 days later I noticed i had this red watery bump like thing on the side of my labia. I went to the doctor and she said that she "thinks" I have genital herpies. We've been kissing and having sex&...

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Re: Oral Sex
Anonymous
Tuesday, April 15, 2008 at 05:54 PM
My ex-boyfriend gave me herpes with no signs or symptoms, he still claims that he dosen't have it! We were together for at least a YEAR before I noticed anything unusual down there... the best thing to do is wait for the blood test. If you do have it, it's not the end of the world and there are treatments for it. Best of luck to you.

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worried1
Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at 01:34 PM
thank you im still anxious about my results my doc said that it will take a week to get them back and she will call if there is a problem and she want it there isn't so hopefully she want call me its day 3 though i should know something by friday

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So Cali Girl
Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at 05:37 PM

Your welcome. I'm just 20 years old, and when I found my results I was devistated. I had only ever had lost my virginity to another virgin, and then had sex with my ex. My ex actually threatened to tell all of my friends, co-workers, and any new guys that I might be seeing about it!!! It's been really hard for me to deal with, but I take Valtrex daily and I've only ever had ONE outbreak! I make sure to tell a person before we get intimate, and we usually decide to use a condom and everything is fine! I understand what you are going through. If your boyfriend decides to leave you, hes a jerk! You deserve better and there are guys out there that understand. Remember there are millions of people living with this too. - So Cali Girl

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CAM
Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at 06:32 PM

Hi my name is Camilo and I am monitoring this Sharepost Community and I would like to thank you and everyone else who has responded to your post for being an active part of the community. Let me start of by telling you that I am not a certified healthcare practitioner but I can direct you to some relevant and helpful sections of our site. In case you do obtain a positive diagnosis, check out our Just Diagnosed page. Also we have a great section about dating with a sexually transmitted disease--where you will helpful information such as:
1. How to tell your partner
2. Can you spread herpes to your partner when you have no symptoms?
3. Can you transmit herpes through kissing?
4. Genital Herpes from oral sex?

I hope this was of some help, and good luck with your boyfriend and future relationships. Also remember to consult with your physician before adopting any new knowledge into practice.

CAM

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worried1
Saturday, April 19, 2008 at 12:30 PM

Thanks to everyone who has been there for me but i recieved my results yesterday and I dont have herpes im so relieved from so much stress right now but im so excited to hear that my results were negative !!! Thanks again!!!