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Do I have Genital Herpies??

katelynashlee
By katelynashlee Monday, March 19, 2007

ok. so about three days ago i noticed my vagina was itching really bad. i didnt really think it was anything serious until i looked in a mirror. and i noticed 3 little bump on the inside of my two lips on my vagina. and around my anus there are litte rashes. i have know this guy for about 7 months and about 3 months ago we had sex. he was the first and only person i have been sexually active wiht. we have made out many time even 7 months ago and i have never noticed bumps or anything on my mouth and reciently he gave me oral and now i have these bumps on my vagina and my vagina is itching.... but im confused thought because i was rescarching and it could be herpies but i never got it on my mouth and now its appering on my vagina.

i dont want my mom to know. she would be really mad at me. and i want to go get it checked out. but i have no other family or friends. and im only 14 so i cant go by myself.. or can i? and i dont want to tell people because im emberessed. please help

Do I have Genital Herpies??
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Anonymous
Anonymous
4/27/07 2:45pm

hoh my god i cant believed dat happen to u!!!=(

Anonymous
Anonymous
4/29/07 9:56pm
recently my ex took advantage of me. y i have a bf been with my bf 8 months now. weve never had any problem before but he gave me oral sex n the day after he got this rash and little pimples on his face near his mouth could or is this symptons of genital herpes? i dont no what to do . tell him or get it checked out please help
Anonymous
Cassi
7/ 2/08 11:49pm

hey i read ur post because i am going thru the same thing. about 2 days ago i started burning nd itching after some guy gave me oral. nd im scared to tell my parents because they are very religious nd they would be so angry at me. im only 15. nd im supposed to be a good girl. nd it doesnt mean we are bad if we have this disease. but id like to kno if i have it to. nd i dont think u can go to the doctor by yourself. because the doctor is authorized to tell your parents if a doctor knows something like this. nd doesnt tell your parents they can lose their job. i am supposed to go to the doctor tomorrow.

lemme know if you have it. nd i will let you know. nd do u have to have bumps.

because i dont have bumps yet.

email me please

cassyxrawr1593@aol.com

Anonymous
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6/15/09 1:25pm

hey i read your post,

last week i started with the burning and itching whilst going to the toilet. i am to embarrassed to go to the doctors because im onlyy 17  i am scared to tell my parents and all i keep doing is crying, i am to scared to tell my friends i dont know who to tell.

I have jjust ruined my life :(:(:(

 

write back

Anonymous
becky
10/ 3/09 3:04am

Go to your local health Department and get tested.  They will keep the visit private and help you get meds and teach you preventive measures for the future. I am not sure yours sounds like herpies you may have something more simplier but either way it is not the end of the world just a hard lessoned learned.  ps I would not share this with your friends but maybe a pearent after the diagnosis?

Anonymous
normen
10/10/09 12:08pm

i know how you fell i slept with my best feriend and 2 days later i got a blister i cant tell my mom she would freak  im only

16

me in nc
me in nc
10/23/10 12:20pm

sounds like you might have a yeast infection go to the health food store and get bladder & yeast infection  all natural ingredients in capsule form take these as prescribed on the bottle you can take 1/ 2 every 3 hrsthis should help you!  Good Luck;0)

 

Anonymous
Zimmb1095
9/28/11 10:33pm
Hey I understand your scared and all but I'm a 15 year old girl and I ended up having herpies I ended up telling my grandma I'm closest with her and I went and asked her to make me an appointment I told her to make sure it was s girl one only and I went and they said they won't tell your privacy to your parent but u have to at least get that ur sexually active out if the box it wasnt that bad but the blisters do hurt
Anonymous
chipmunk
10/25/08 1:55am

 I recently just broke up with my boyfriend but before we did we had sex and now i'm getting these bumps on my stomach and in my pubic area and i have swollen gums with a blister that was clear on my gum but i busted it and it started bleeding but not  in my mouths still inside the blister.now i have to pee alot too. he was my first i had never had sex with any one else.  if anyone know something please let me know  cause i'm 19 and  i have no insurance so i can't see the doctor. if you find out please email me @ chipmunk_1989@yahoo.com. my name is Kristie

Anonymous
britney
10/30/09 8:15pm

i had sex wit my ex. then couple days later i was burning,itching in my vaginal,so when i went in got a mirror to look down there i notice lil red bumps in my area.so nobody knows but my doctor,in fiance that when i went to the doctor they told me i has it.its scary but you have to find out so if it is u can get treated for it.its not cureable but you can take medicane for it

Anonymous
Angel
6/10/09 11:42am

Yes i believe thats what you have  catch before it get to late i know you dont want your mom to know but she will find out trust me you only 14 any hospital or clinic will need permission  from your parent to give you any type of medicine or just call child care on your mother and your mother will be in trouble

Anonymous
becky
10/ 3/09 3:22am

It definetly sounds like you have herpies but to be sure you need to go get checked.  there is no cure for herpies just have to learn how to manage the signs and symptoms and prevent from spreading to others. You need to go get tested and go from there.  I HOPE ALL FINDS YOU OKAY BUT REMEMBER IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD AND THERE ARE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE HERPIES. 

Anonymous
becky
10/ 3/09 3:23am

It definetly sounds like you have herpies but to be sure you need to go get checked.  there is no cure for herpies just have to learn how to manage the signs and symptoms and prevent from spreading to others. You need to go get tested and go from there.  I HOPE ALL FINDS YOU OKAY BUT REMEMBER IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD AND THERE ARE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE HERPIES. 

Anonymous
M.Kay
10/21/09 12:03am

Even if you don't have soars on your mouth does'nt neccesarilly mean anything. It will be better to say something in this type of situation then to jst let it pass. Your mother may be dissappointed in you for the moment but if your health is in question she will be understanding. Remember she gave birth to you and will love you no matter what, and you may even learn a thing or two.

Anonymous
Anonymous
2/10/10 3:19am

I feel so bad for you being only 14, I think back to when I was that young and I could never have told my mom something like that.  I totally understand where you are coming from.  I am 27 and I have the same fears.  I was recently told I have herpes and I was crushed.  I have lived with my boyfriend for a year, we've being fucking the whole time.  I was shocked.  Herpes can live in some people for an unditermind amount of time without any warning signs.  It is so hard to tell when or where you got it, however if he was your first it takes the guest work out of it.  My advice to you is get to a doctor right away.  You can definately see a doctor without your parents finding out.  Doctor aren't aloud to say anything to your parents.  The sooner you know the better.  If it is herpes, I've read that early detection and treatment can lessen your outbreaks later in life.  Sound to me like you have the exact same symptoms that I did.  Don't worry you are not alone, and when push comes to shuv, your parents love you and they will be mad but they will be there for you.  Good luck and go see a doctor ASAP.

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