Do I have Genital Herpies??

katelynashlee Community Member March 20, 2007
  • about 3 days ago i noticed my vagina was itching really bad. i didnt really think it was anything serious until i looked in a mirror. and i noticed 3 little bump on the inside of my two lips on my vagina. and around my anus there are litte rashes. i have know this guy for about 7 months and about 3 months ago we had sex. he was the first and only person i have been sexually active wiht. we have made out many time even 7 months ago and i have never noticed bumps or anything on my mouth and reciently he gave me oral and now i have these bumps on my vagina and my vagina is itching.... but im confused thought because i was rescarching and it could be herpies but i never got it on my mouth and now its appering on my vagina.

    i dont want my mom to know. she would be mad at me. i want to go get it checked out. but i have no other family or friends. and im only 14 so i cant go by myself.. or can i?

158 Comments
  • Bjustfish
    Mar. 11, 2014
    Hello I'm 16 and have never had sex but I've done everything else, and I've noticed little bumps on my foreskin and I don't know what it is and what to do, but I don't want to tell my mum, help me??
  • Amber Rivera
    Feb. 03, 2014
    I haven't had sex or even oral sex with anyone. But my area down there burns really bad and I have bumps that show up randomly and I was looking at my lips and there are little dots on the inside of them. I'm scarred and I don't know what to do. Again I haven't done anything with and boy. I'm 15 and don't want a disease. Please I don't know If I should go to...
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    I haven't had sex or even oral sex with anyone. But my area down there burns really bad and I have bumps that show up randomly and I was looking at my lips and there are little dots on the inside of them. I'm scarred and I don't know what to do. Again I haven't done anything with and boy. I'm 15 and don't want a disease. Please I don't know If I should go to a clinic to be checked but again im really scared
  • Anonymous
    keke
    Jan. 29, 2014

    that is very sad and he should be ashamed of himself and im sorry you have to go through that but you need to go get it checked because that is what it sounds like and it can get bad but i know ppl with herpes and only one person has a bad reaction and you would need and adult to go with you beacuse of your age and your going to get meds and all that and im...

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    that is very sad and he should be ashamed of himself and im sorry you have to go through that but you need to go get it checked because that is what it sounds like and it can get bad but i know ppl with herpes and only one person has a bad reaction and you would need and adult to go with you beacuse of your age and your going to get meds and all that and im sure your parents will have to handle that for you and theres no need to be affraid to tell mom she will help u through it but he needs to be delt with because thats not right for him to ha done that to you 

  • DR Jules ANDERSON
    Jan. 25, 2014

    Sounds like you have exactly what a lot of my patients have, from being a dirty little birdie! It's called the African Bull Clap... Very soon your Virgina will start to smell extreamly bad, you won't be able to hide it, everybody will smell it! Soon after your Cliteres will turn black, and fall off :( ..... Hope this helps hun.

     

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    Sounds like you have exactly what a lot of my patients have, from being a dirty little birdie! It's called the African Bull Clap... Very soon your Virgina will start to smell extreamly bad, you won't be able to hide it, everybody will smell it! Soon after your Cliteres will turn black, and fall off :( ..... Hope this helps hun.

     

                    SincerelyDR Jules ANDERSON, GYN

                    STDRUS@LIVE.COM 

  • Amber
    Jan. 22, 2014

    Yes honey, you can get checked by yourself. You don't need a parent with you. But you should probably tell your mom. She could help you and she could be by your side. But the choice is yours. But yes, you should get that checked asap. As soon as possible. If you don't have anything, you should start wearing protection. The clinic will give you a bag of condoms...

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    Yes honey, you can get checked by yourself. You don't need a parent with you. But you should probably tell your mom. She could help you and she could be by your side. But the choice is yours. But yes, you should get that checked asap. As soon as possible. If you don't have anything, you should start wearing protection. The clinic will give you a bag of condoms for free. Just maje sure you ask. And loose that guy. He probably cheated, got something and then gave it to you.

  • Anonymous
    LaRonkia Wilson
    Jan. 19, 2014
    I'm Only 14 & I Was a Virgin , I Decided To Try Sex With My Friend Brother Since We Was Crushing and I Knew Him For a While , He Tried Going in With The Condom But it Wouldn't So He Took The Condom Off and He Went in and Start Going For Like 4 Or 5 Minutes & I Stopped Cause it Hurted & Now I'm Itching & I Have Never Been Like This Before , it itches Really...
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    I'm Only 14 & I Was a Virgin , I Decided To Try Sex With My Friend Brother Since We Was Crushing and I Knew Him For a While , He Tried Going in With The Condom But it Wouldn't So He Took The Condom Off and He Went in and Start Going For Like 4 Or 5 Minutes & I Stopped Cause it Hurted & Now I'm Itching & I Have Never Been Like This Before , it itches Really Bad & I Also got a bump on The Top Of My Lip & I Have No Clue What It Is & I Don't Want To Go To The Doctor Because I'm Afraid Of What My Parents Might Say & I Don't Want No Disease , Herpies Or Anything , So Can SomeOne Help Me Or Try To Let Me Know What This Is , I'm Very CURIOUS because it also Looks Like Little Bumps With Pus On My Vagina Lips !!
    • Amber
      Jan. 22, 2014

      If he's older, which im guessing that he is, he probably gave you something. Go get checked asap and never have sex without a condom, till you're married and want babies. But seriously, go get it checked. It could be serious.

  • Anonymous
    Pmc
    Jan. 13, 2014
    So I'm a virgin and I'm 15 and not until a week ago did I start to notice that my vagina started to get really itchy and not the clit part but the like actual inside. I'm really scared! I'm planning on having sex with my boyfriend that I've had for 2 years now and I don't want to give it to him but I don't want to tell him if it is I looked in to the hole and...
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    So I'm a virgin and I'm 15 and not until a week ago did I start to notice that my vagina started to get really itchy and not the clit part but the like actual inside. I'm really scared! I'm planning on having sex with my boyfriend that I've had for 2 years now and I don't want to give it to him but I don't want to tell him if it is I looked in to the hole and I saw little white kind of dead sink things and im really sacred I love him and he loves me and I don't want to lose him. Please help!!
  • irvin
    Apr. 20, 2012

    ahahha

  • irvin
    Apr. 20, 2012

    dude, thats seriouse get that checked out stinky ass

  • Anonymous
    worriencauseoral
    Jan. 29, 2012

    I am 24 YO Male, I have never ever had sex act before I was call massage therapist when I'm in Jakarta, after she massages my back, she briefly lick and suck my dick (unprotected insertive oral sex), I EJACULATE in her mouth after 1-2 minutes receiving oral...  After 2 weeks I feel a little DISCOMFORT at my urethra when I wearing my underwear .. but...

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    I am 24 YO Male, I have never ever had sex act before I was call massage therapist when I'm in Jakarta, after she massages my back, she briefly lick and suck my dick (unprotected insertive oral sex), I EJACULATE in her mouth after 1-2 minutes receiving oral...  After 2 weeks I feel a little DISCOMFORT at my urethra when I wearing my underwear .. but not hurt,just feeling strange, maybe I can say "tingle" (I don't know what is tingle mean exactly) it was a little cramp or something more sensitive, there is no pain,no discharge, no fever, no swollen gland., no outbreak at all, no pimple, no sore.. That feeling was happen 3-5 days,after that it's gone, all came back normal..
    Now 2 months or 9 weeks after the incident... DO I NEED STILL CONCERN ?
    Please your answer....

    • DR Jules ANDERSON
      Jan. 25, 2014

      You have the African Bull Clap for sure! The only cure is to put your Penis between the pages of a very large hardcover book.. Then hit the book extreamly hard with a very heavy hammer! Then the infection, and puss will drain from your penis.. Then apply a large amount of Ben Gay Ointment to you penis, in front of a strong blowing fan..:( Hope this helps......

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      You have the African Bull Clap for sure! The only cure is to put your Penis between the pages of a very large hardcover book.. Then hit the book extreamly hard with a very heavy hammer! Then the infection, and puss will drain from your penis.. Then apply a large amount of Ben Gay Ointment to you penis, in front of a strong blowing fan..:( Hope this helps...

       

                              Sincerly, Dr Jules Anderson GYN

                              STDSRUS@LIVE.COM

  • Anonymous
    Vusi Mlambo
    Jan. 03, 2012

    Hi!

    This morning I tried to ask a very important question on this website.I was then prompted to register using my email addres and password but to no vail.They kept telling me an error ocurred,prompting me to try again and again to no vail....I felt like an idiot giving up my information for nothing.

  • Anonymous
    Vusi Mlambo
    Jan. 03, 2012

    Hi!

    This morning I tried to ask a very important question on this website.I was then prompted to register using my email addres and password but to no vail.They kept telling me an error ocurred,prompting me to try again and again to no vail....I felt like an idiot giving up my information for nothing.

  • Anonymous
    Vusi Mlambo
    Jan. 03, 2012

    Hi!

    This morning I tried to ask a very important question on this website.I was then prompted to register using my email addres and password but to no vail.They kept telling me an error ocurred,prompting me to try again and again to no vail....I felt like an idiot giving up my information for nothing.

  • latinnna123
    Oct. 22, 2011

    i hadd the samee exact thing!
    but i went to the docters and got it checked out and i turned out it was  only a yeast infection.
    but you should really have that looked at. 

  • Anonymous
    amanda
    Jul. 20, 2011


          when it comes to herpes,I hate how many people are using the word "end".It's not the? end,start your new life DatingHerpesSingles.com

    • Anonymous
      Magic momo
      Sep. 23, 2011

      Personally. Girls Under the age of 26 year's of age should not be spreading their legs to get all kinds of nice diseases i mean for what.... Which female can actaully have an orgasm * knowing how to pleaser herself* Or beyond that trying to teach her boyfriend to.. please just because the little twerps are able to get it hard does not mean intercourse is the...

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      Personally. Girls Under the age of 26 year's of age should not be spreading their legs to get all kinds of nice diseases i mean for what.... Which female can actaully have an orgasm * knowing how to pleaser herself* Or beyond that trying to teach her boyfriend to.. please just because the little twerps are able to get it hard does not mean intercourse is the next thing for god's sake !! What have we become.. O wait where am i?... on the forum where it is to late.. Prevent others from being a idiotic as you.. [all the angels ask]

    • Anonymous
      Bethany
      Jan. 12, 2012

      @ Magic Momo,

       

      Really? You're sounding just like chrissie no lumps up there. Whether you are giving your personal opinion or not, you have no right to judge someone based off the ideals you live your life by. Being a teenager is a very confusing time filled with new things (including the ability to have sex). This girl chose to have sex, and may have...

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      @ Magic Momo,

       

      Really? You're sounding just like chrissie no lumps up there. Whether you are giving your personal opinion or not, you have no right to judge someone based off the ideals you live your life by. Being a teenager is a very confusing time filled with new things (including the ability to have sex). This girl chose to have sex, and may have an std, but you want to call her idiotic because she did not keep her "legs closed" until 26. Sounds like you need to get off of your high horse to me.

       

      @ Kate: As for Kate, I know exactly what you are going through. I am currently having some health issues myself. I have been having discharge like a yeast infection for a few months on and off now with bumps that make me afraid it is herpes. I've decided that I need to get tested, and have been trying to do it on my own, but to no avail. I am 18 and am a freshman in college, but I still know my parents will not be too pleased with me. However, after talking with my dad about seeing a doctor on campus about the yeast infection (he was pissed that I did not let them know what was going on beforehand), I have decided talking to parents to get tested is the first step to success. When it comes to stds, you can go to a free clinic, but I know for me its hard to get there on my own, and free clinics are first come, first serve (or you wait a long ass time in line). Not to mention, if you need medicine, the prices (and actual tests if not given at a free clinic) can run near the hundreds, where parental insurance comes in handy. I have decided to talk to my parents today despite their strict nature--whatever consequences come (disappointment, embarrassment, me being taken off campus, etc., the results of my std test) I know my parents will have more respect for me for talking to them straight on instead of sneaking behind their backs, and I feel that your mom/parents will feel the same way too. And it will probably get you much further in the long run to tell her now than if you waited until you got a positive result back and had to break the news to her (she would have to deal with the knowledge that u had sex AND u have an uncurable std). I may post up the results of me telling them later for you. You will not be able tolive up to all of someone else's expectations and cannot prevent some of their reactions, but you can make things easier for yourself. However, I wish you the best of luck though, and know that you are never alone, no matter how other people react or what they say. <3

  • Marissa
    Jun. 28, 2011

    I know how you feel.  im 14 and ive head sex , Ive had a UTI and i took all the doctors medicince and i continued to have it , and what also feels like a yeast infection. And im going to get tested for other STDs and STIs . Im really scared though , my mom has herpies but she still enjoys regular day life. But if i have them , i dont know how i could do...

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    I know how you feel.  im 14 and ive head sex , Ive had a UTI and i took all the doctors medicince and i continued to have it , and what also feels like a yeast infection. And im going to get tested for other STDs and STIs . Im really scared though , my mom has herpies but she still enjoys regular day life. But if i have them , i dont know how i could do that. And the worst part is my boyfriend is Herpie free. I told him about what was going on and he said he would be here for me. But im not depending on him. My advice tell your mom . She may be upset or dissapointed but it will be worth it in the end. Im sure she cares about you and she will do anything she can to help. But good thing its not life threatning, but still tell your mom and i hope everything goes well.

    • Anonymous
      Bmack
      Jan. 29, 2014
      Sometimes the antibiotics doctors give you for other illnesses and infections - in your genital region or in other places of your body - can upset the pH balance in the female body. When this happens, sometimes the yeast will begin to grow rapidly in your vagina and cause infection. It is extremely itchy, may make the area around your vagina dry, and you may...
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      Sometimes the antibiotics doctors give you for other illnesses and infections - in your genital region or in other places of your body - can upset the pH balance in the female body. When this happens, sometimes the yeast will begin to grow rapidly in your vagina and cause infection. It is extremely itchy, may make the area around your vagina dry, and you may have thick, white discharge. You need to wear cotton underpants and nothing too tight but DO NOT self diagnose - it is not always a yeast infection and it's important to see a doctor as well. It is also really important to be open with your parents about anything going on with you - they can be an amazing support system. My mom was my rock when I found out I was diagnosed with herpes. Just be careful who you tell IF you are diagnosed with an STI that you have forever. The only people that really need to know are previous partners and future partners. And for past partners, there are websites that help you send anonymous texts and emails to alert them like dontspreadit.com. Also, unless your boyfriend has been tested, he could still have herpes. Herpes can be in your body for years without showing any symptoms and during that time you can still give it to other people. And even then, herpes does not always show up in a blood test unless it has been in your system for at least 16 weeks - or about 4 months. It is still important for him to get tested so you both can eliminate that or can get the proper medication. Herpes can be transmitted even when a person isn't having a flare up so you must always use caution when having sex with a new partner - I learned the hard way and you are much too young to have to deal with any of that.
  • hannah
    May. 24, 2011

    about a month ago i noticed i have lil bumps on my panty line i thought it was irritation from shaving but it still hasnt gone away it itches sometimes and there is a couple on the other side to and im not sure what it is! is it herpes??? i had sex with this kid for 4 months and never got anything till about a month ago and the last time we fucked was out in...

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    about a month ago i noticed i have lil bumps on my panty line i thought it was irritation from shaving but it still hasnt gone away it itches sometimes and there is a couple on the other side to and im not sure what it is! is it herpes??? i had sex with this kid for 4 months and never got anything till about a month ago and the last time we fucked was out in the woods and after that i noticed them down there plz help im only 14 and idk what it is??

  • Anonymous
    NeedAdviceGirl
    Mar. 17, 2011

    So recently I found out my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 and a half years has herpes, and I was the only person he was ever with he hadnt even kissed anyone before. So now, 7 months after breaking up I hear this rumor of him telling people he has it, and that I gave it to him. So i confronted him and It's true that he does have it....So I know i need to...

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    So recently I found out my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 and a half years has herpes, and I was the only person he was ever with he hadnt even kissed anyone before. So now, 7 months after breaking up I hear this rumor of him telling people he has it, and that I gave it to him. So i confronted him and It's true that he does have it....So I know i need to get tested and worry about that part first, but what I'm extremly concerned about and writing this for is because, a month after we broke up I got a new bf and, well its been 6 months we've been dating and my ex didnt tell me till i asked and I'm freaking out because I dont know how or if i even can tell him (that is if it turns out i have it), I need some advice please, I dont know how to even really think about it, I'm so freaked out he's going to leave me :'(. help.

    • Anonymous
      Confused!
      May. 27, 2011
      hi, I've had sex quite a bit and I have made my share of mistakes with not being safe because I'm on the pill and never really cared but me and my boyfriend had sex and a few weeks later he went to the dr and got tested. It turns out he has genital herpes. about a month later he admitted to me that I was his first. Does this mean I have it and gave it to him?...
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      hi, I've had sex quite a bit and I have made my share of mistakes with not being safe because I'm on the pill and never really cared but me and my boyfriend had sex and a few weeks later he went to the dr and got tested. It turns out he has genital herpes. about a month later he admitted to me that I was his first. Does this mean I have it and gave it to him? He wants to stay with me even though he knows this so I'm not worried about that. I'm 16 and haven't been tested but recently I've been having really painful burning when I pee and it's just felt uncomfortable but I haven't noticed any bumps anywhere. I've never felt this before but this past weekend we've had a lot of sex. Could this have irrritated it or something? I don't know what to tell my mom...
  • Keisha
    Feb. 15, 2011

    Ive been having this for over two years. And sometimes i feel so stress sometimes and its like i over think about it so much that it hurts me of what the guy did to me. And i have to live with it so. And i didnt wanted to find love but now i did and we been in the relationship over two months. And she is very nice and she loves me for who iam not just what...

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    Ive been having this for over two years. And sometimes i feel so stress sometimes and its like i over think about it so much that it hurts me of what the guy did to me. And i have to live with it so. And i didnt wanted to find love but now i did and we been in the relationship over two months. And she is very nice and she loves me for who iam not just what i have.

  • starzzz1982
    Dec. 18, 2010

    you could very well have contacted genital herpes through sex with this guy even though u have no signs of having it orally which is known as herpes simplex 1 or 2. i had that when i was 10 which i somehow caught in elementary school...the only explanation was possibly from the drinking fountains or sharing drinks w/friends. even though someone else does not...

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    you could very well have contacted genital herpes through sex with this guy even though u have no signs of having it orally which is known as herpes simplex 1 or 2. i had that when i was 10 which i somehow caught in elementary school...the only explanation was possibly from the drinking fountains or sharing drinks w/friends. even though someone else does not have sores you can still carry the virus and not know it or have signs of it. usually u do have an outbreak of some sort though. i had one huge outbreak all over the inside of my mouth whiich are known as little canker sores. they were all over and very painful. i was treated and never had it again. i also have never spread it...i've been w/my bf for 6 yrs now and have 2 kids w/him and he's never gotten it or had any signs of it or outbreaks either. also though, genital herpes is basically the same in terms of outbreaks. i contacted it from my bf i am with now and have only had a few outbreaks since i first found out i had it 5 yrs ago. my bf and i do have oral sex often and i've never given or gotten any oral outbreaks since we've been together. hope this helps a little :)

  • johnson12
    Oct. 26, 2010

    girl friend told me she has herpes what can i do to prevent getting herpes

    besides use condoms

  • Anonymous
    ger
    Oct. 06, 2010

    If you can't talk to your parents; your school's guidance counciler or school nurse can help you.

  • Anonymous
    veitnamies M.J
    Aug. 06, 2010

    well i am a 69 year old veitnamies tranvestite, i was recently having sex with my eleventeen year old boyfriend, over the next few weeks i noticed that my penis had red rashes and i was squrting green ooze out of my wiener i also noticed my testicles had swollen to the size of a cantalope, and he walked away just fine... what went wrong!!

  • Anonymous
    Sally
    Jul. 13, 2010

    Omg! i think i might have herpes! what do i do??

  • brokenupinside
    May. 25, 2010

    i just contracted herpes from my fiance who didnt know he had the virus. It's my first outbreak and i am prescribed Acyclovir 200mg, 5 times a day for 5 days by my doctor. The sores hurt really bad and the discharge that i have makes it feel worse. Taking a leak hurts too cos my sores are not just at the back but towards the front too. So i pretty much cry...

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    i just contracted herpes from my fiance who didnt know he had the virus. It's my first outbreak and i am prescribed Acyclovir 200mg, 5 times a day for 5 days by my doctor. The sores hurt really bad and the discharge that i have makes it feel worse. Taking a leak hurts too cos my sores are not just at the back but towards the front too. So i pretty much cry when i have to go. Do sores get a lot worse before it gets better? cos i honestly want it to scab over fast so things will be a lot better. cos i don't blame my fiance at all and when he sees me crying in pain or hear the sound of me voice when i am hurting he feels miserable about passing me this disease. I never blamed him, i just want to get better for him and for me

  • Anonymous
    Marie
    Apr. 03, 2010

    877-453-2960

    STD Testing is something nobody should put off.

    Get tested locally, or even in your home.

     

    Call to speak to a certified STD Counselor.

    877-453-2960

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Feb. 03, 2010

    Well I now how you may feel because my niece just found out that she has it. If you wait to long it will be worse so I HOPE you can find someone to take you really soon. Please Please Please go I wish I can be your big sister or your friend so please email me foxytamika97@yahoo.com  It will be between you and I what we talk about Please Please go get check...

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    Well I now how you may feel because my niece just found out that she has it. If you wait to long it will be worse so I HOPE you can find someone to take you really soon. Please Please Please go I wish I can be your big sister or your friend so please email me foxytamika97@yahoo.com  It will be between you and I what we talk about Please Please go get check out It hurt her so bad that she couldnt walk and when she use the restroom it hurt like hell it had her in tears and she was bleeding from the back end please go

  • Anonymous
    _
    Dec. 04, 2009

    i am 15 yrs old. me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now. we both got a outbreak and were still waiting for the tests to come back. its hard to cover it from your mom. it seems lik there is no1 to help you. free clinics and planned parent hood are the best. they give you advise and help you, they can also help you get through it and...

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    i am 15 yrs old. me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now. we both got a outbreak and were still waiting for the tests to come back. its hard to cover it from your mom. it seems lik there is no1 to help you. free clinics and planned parent hood are the best. they give you advise and help you, they can also help you get through it and help get you treatment. there will be a time to tell your mom. talk to your sexual partner about his history. best of luck 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Dec. 01, 2009

    Yu will be fine, it can't kill yu.

    i just recently found out last week that the

    guy i have been havin sex with for the past 8 months

    got infected wen he had sex wit another girl that his cousin

    liked, neways me and him stopd talkin for a month, once i got

    back in contact with him he told me he got test and was positive

    for herpes. He got testd a week after...

    RHMLucky777

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    Yu will be fine, it can't kill yu.

    i just recently found out last week that the

    guy i have been havin sex with for the past 8 months

    got infected wen he had sex wit another girl that his cousin

    liked, neways me and him stopd talkin for a month, once i got

    back in contact with him he told me he got test and was positive

    for herpes. He got testd a week after me and him had unprotectd sex.

    well, he ended up getting it from the other girl and now i might have it.

    the worse thing is i might be pregnet now and have hepres and if i get a

    out break during the pregnacy the baby will contract it it could be a premature

    be blind or die :(

    i just made my appointment 30 minutes ago at planned parenthood, which is a free

    clince and im only 17 so my parents are not going to find out unless i have it.

    i feel bad cause im keeping it from them but i want to know for sure before i tell them

    i dont want them to blame him because the girl that he got it from new she had it and didnt tell him. He didnt know and he blames himself even though im not positive that i have it.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Oct. 09, 2009

    First,God says that you should wait until marriage to have sex.Thats the only safe sex.You went behind your mom and Gods back and had sex and now you have a sexual transmitted disease.My advice is to stop lying to your mom and tell her the truth.The longer you wait the worst it will get. She may be mad at first but by you telling the truth, in the the future...

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    First,God says that you should wait until marriage to have sex.Thats the only safe sex.You went behind your mom and Gods back and had sex and now you have a sexual transmitted disease.My advice is to stop lying to your mom and tell her the truth.The longer you wait the worst it will get. She may be mad at first but by you telling the truth, in the the future she will trust you more.This world is  not going to be here very long.90% of bible profecy has come true!! I do not believe in religoen because thats mans way to god.I believe that jesus christ died for are sin past, present, and future. I also believe in having a relationship with god . Reading your bible everyday or counting beads or not eating meat can not sAVE YOU FROM HELL..thats mans way to god.

    Do you know where your going when you die.if you want to talk more my email is jasmine.blue76@yahoo.com ps: Im also 14 years old

    • Anonymous
      mrs. crane
      Nov. 10, 2009

      well said, well what advice do u have for a 23 y.o who is married and caught herpes from her husband ???????????????? so much for waiting huh? what does god say about that???? and no he didnt cheat on me I guess if everyone waited for marriage we wouldnt have these probs GET TESTED WHILE DATING AND BEFORE MARRIAGE!11

    • Anonymous
      Jasmine Blue
      Nov. 14, 2009

      It sounds like God gives us good advice in that a man will read what he sews.You did not do anything wrong.I am real sorry that your husband did not tell you his past.God says be careful what you marry.It just shows that gods ways work best.If your husband would have waited you and him would have been better of. God did not lie to you...your husband did. May...

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      It sounds like God gives us good advice in that a man will read what he sews.You did not do anything wrong.I am real sorry that your husband did not tell you his past.God says be careful what you marry.It just shows that gods ways work best.If your husband would have waited you and him would have been better of. God did not lie to you...your husband did. May God help you in this sitaution.

    • Anonymous
      Jasmine Blue
      Nov. 14, 2009

      It sounds like God gives us good advice in that a man will read what he sews.You did not do anything wrong.I am real sorry that your husband did not tell you his past.God says be careful what you marry.It just shows that gods ways work best.If your husband would have waited you and him would have been better of. God did not lie to you...your husband did. May...

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      It sounds like God gives us good advice in that a man will read what he sews.You did not do anything wrong.I am real sorry that your husband did not tell you his past.God says be careful what you marry.It just shows that gods ways work best.If your husband would have waited you and him would have been better of. God did not lie to you...your husband did. May God help you in this sitaution.

    • Anonymous
      Superbaby
      Nov. 17, 2009

       

      Im sorry for everyone who has this, Take a bleach wash up it worksbut not near the genitals that burns  LOL

  • Anonymous
    no one
    Sep. 25, 2009

    find a local planned parenthood and get it checked out they wont tell your parents but you have to have a certain health insurance and you have to know you social security number. you should probably call them up and get checked.

     

    good luck.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Sep. 23, 2009

    i am 29 years old and just found out that i  have Genital Herpes and i have 2 kids, girls and they are 6, and 3, and sometimes i still bath with my daughter and i dont know how long that i have had this and i am scared that i have infected her to , can u get it from bath water? im scared and feel like a bad mom i havent told anyone . My husband and...

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    i am 29 years old and just found out that i  have Genital Herpes and i have 2 kids, girls and they are 6, and 3, and sometimes i still bath with my daughter and i dont know how long that i have had this and i am scared that i have infected her to , can u get it from bath water? im scared and feel like a bad mom i havent told anyone . My husband and i broke up 9 months ago and the first guy i was with after him , must have infected me, but i dont Know. What can i do ?

  • Anonymous
    A friend
    Sep. 07, 2009

    Tell your mother because what you have could possibly be life threatening.  The longer you wait the worse your condition may get.  It may be nothing or it may be something you need medication for.  You are not invincible or made out of steel.  Be careful with your sexual partners and just know that everything you do from now on will be affecting...

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    Tell your mother because what you have could possibly be life threatening.  The longer you wait the worse your condition may get.  It may be nothing or it may be something you need medication for.  You are not invincible or made out of steel.  Be careful with your sexual partners and just know that everything you do from now on will be affecting your future.  Be safe and wait till you are much older to have sex.  Hopefully with your husband.

     

    KING

  • Anonymous
    Somewhere in FL
    Aug. 03, 2009

    Dear young one... You can always go to a clinic by yourself... or take a friend. Medical care is out there and it is not something the doctor can tell you parents due to doctor-patient confidentiality (meaning its a legal secret). I had something almost exactly like what you are talking about except I was told it is called genital warts. HPV Human papamolma...

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    Dear young one... You can always go to a clinic by yourself... or take a friend. Medical care is out there and it is not something the doctor can tell you parents due to doctor-patient confidentiality (meaning its a legal secret). I had something almost exactly like what you are talking about except I was told it is called genital warts. HPV Human papamolma virus. And yes It itches the female parts like crazy. I also tested positive for genital herpies and am a long time suffer. It feels nothing like what you described. If you do test positive for it ask for a medication called "Valtrex". 

  • Anonymous
    will mellor
    Jun. 16, 2009

    i have the same thing i was looking up what herpies was n i found this to get some help ...i have the same thing  and i have told my mom n dad but they wont do anything about it :'(

     

    it was about 4 days ago i got drunk and this girl gave me a blowjob and she has a colsore or something and now i have a rash around the anus and a bump on my penis please...

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    i have the same thing i was looking up what herpies was n i found this to get some help ...i have the same thing  and i have told my mom n dad but they wont do anything about it :'(

     

    it was about 4 days ago i got drunk and this girl gave me a blowjob and she has a colsore or something and now i have a rash around the anus and a bump on my penis please help me !!!!

    ill take anything for it to stop pleaseee here is my number please help me :'(

     

    07867 986 297

     

    thanx

     

    will mellor

  • Anonymous
    SHIRLEIAHD
    May. 08, 2009

    IM FIFTEEN BUT I KNOW SOME THINGS BOUT THIS YOU SOO YOUNG WHAT DO YOU KNOW BOUT SEX YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR MOM CAUSE THAT MIGHT NOT BE ALL YOU GOT AN YOU COULD DIE FROM NOT GETTIN HELP......

    • Anonymous
      ysherry
      May. 18, 2009

      where are you people getting your info from, you don't die from herpes unless you are a fetus, and they get herpes encyphalitis (swelling of the brain). i found out i had herpes (hsv1 and 2) when i was 19 even though a condom was used, got put on medication (valtrex) once a day, and have told all my sexual partners since, and never spread it to any of them....

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      where are you people getting your info from, you don't die from herpes unless you are a fetus, and they get herpes encyphalitis (swelling of the brain). i found out i had herpes (hsv1 and 2) when i was 19 even though a condom was used, got put on medication (valtrex) once a day, and have told all my sexual partners since, and never spread it to any of them. I also had a baby( who is 2), who is perfectly healthy, and has tested negative. As long as you are careful and wash your hands after going to the bathroom or touching private areas, take your meds, use condoms, and don't share towels, or wipe your face with the same towel you wipe your privates, you will be ok. It's not the plague. And all you people hating on us "sluts and hoes" who end up with STD'S, don't worry, your's is coming, unless you never ever have sex(cause honestly unless you're a nun or a troll your going to have sex) and the way things are now-a-days, you'll have HIV in a quick minute, and I'll be perfectly healthy with our herpes! Don't worry I wouldn't wish that on you and I wouldn't laugh at you either when you think you're invincible!

  • Anonymous
    sabrina
    May. 05, 2009

    ok well ive been with this guy for almost a year and ive never had these symtopes before we got togeather i would get blatter infections and bubms on my vigina but he would tell me when i asked him that it's problably because i was dehigrated so i realy dnt know and i cant tell my parents im only 14 i'll be 15 on mothers day

  • Anonymous
    confused
    Apr. 20, 2009

    a few weeks ago i was on holiday and started to get really really ill... with tonsiltis type symptoms.(swollen glands and tonsils, white spots around my tonsils, which later on spread to my lips and inside my cheeks) i saw a doctor as was prescribed antibiotics, it just kept getting worse so i went home from my holiday and saw my own doctor. at this stage,...

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    a few weeks ago i was on holiday and started to get really really ill... with tonsiltis type symptoms.(swollen glands and tonsils, white spots around my tonsils, which later on spread to my lips and inside my cheeks) i saw a doctor as was prescribed antibiotics, it just kept getting worse so i went home from my holiday and saw my own doctor. at this stage, i couldnt eat and could hardly swallow, i couldnt even brush my teeth because my gums were affected too. apparently ur first break out is the worst.

    my doctor took swabs and blood tests and it came back that i had type 1 herpes. she prescribed me an antiviral and within a week it had cleared up.

    after finding out that i have herpes, ive been doing alot of research... which to be honest has scared me alot. i have suffered from pain during sex for quite a few months now, which is due to the skin round the opening of my vagina splitting, and quite often i get UTI's also. i always thought that it was from rough sex or dry sex, but from what ive been reading i'm now really worried that i could actually have herpes down there too. i never have blisters, just cuts, which are only caused by sex. could i just be being paranoid? also does anyone know if theres a link between uti's and herpes? and is there anyway to stop the skin splittin when i have sex, ive tried lube and it doesnt help.

    thanks

  • Anonymous
    lizzy19
    Apr. 12, 2009

    I just found out i had herpes about five days ago you are very young as me im only 19 and pregnant with herpes its very shocking when you hear the news from your doctor im telling you that even if your mother were to get mad at you dont worry about that you need to worry about your health and let her take you to go get checked out so there for if you did have...

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    I just found out i had herpes about five days ago you are very young as me im only 19 and pregnant with herpes its very shocking when you hear the news from your doctor im telling you that even if your mother were to get mad at you dont worry about that you need to worry about your health and let her take you to go get checked out so there for if you did have herpes you could get some medication so you wont have any out breaks dont be afraid its time to fight this.

  • Anonymous
    SHAMEEKA
    Apr. 04, 2009

    HAVING YOUR MOTHER BEING MAD AT YOU IS THE LEAST OF YOUR PROBLEMS. AN STD (SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE) IS SOMETHING THAT SHOULD NOT BE DEALT WITH LIGHTLY.  I DONOT KNOW YOUR MOM, BUT IF YOU WAS MY DAUGHTER I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO CONFIDE IN ME ABOUT YOUR SITUATION, BECAUSE YOU NEED TO SEE A GYNECOLOGIST FOR A CHECK UP, WHICH YOU WILL HAVE TO GET AT LEAST...

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    HAVING YOUR MOTHER BEING MAD AT YOU IS THE LEAST OF YOUR PROBLEMS. AN STD (SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE) IS SOMETHING THAT SHOULD NOT BE DEALT WITH LIGHTLY.  I DONOT KNOW YOUR MOM, BUT IF YOU WAS MY DAUGHTER I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO CONFIDE IN ME ABOUT YOUR SITUATION, BECAUSE YOU NEED TO SEE A GYNECOLOGIST FOR A CHECK UP, WHICH YOU WILL HAVE TO GET AT LEAST TWO TIMES A YEAR BEING YOU ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE.  SWEETHEART, GO TALK TO YOUR MOM, BEFORE THE SITUATION GETS WORSE.  IT IS BETTER THAT YOU TELL HER BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE DOES. 

  • Anonymous
    brian
    Apr. 02, 2009

    that'll teach ya!!

  • Anonymous
    Jeff
    Apr. 02, 2009

    I really think its best to educate yourself on herpies... go online and find out as much as possible and once you feel more comfortable with the subject then just be honest with your parents. They may be mad at first but they are going to be there for you no matter what!

  • Anonymous
    Sean
    Mar. 11, 2009

    in my opinion you should have asked the guy how many people hes had sex with at least, and had him checked out.. im a 15 yr old guy btw and telling ur parents would do alot of bad for you so dont do it. you might be able to go to a doctor though depending on where u live

  • Anonymous
    monchi
    Mar. 06, 2009

    By the way you describe it you may have it so start by learrning about it and "don't be panic" about it because that right there " triggers" the outbreaks. you don't have to stop having sex or feel depressed about it, I can tell you because I care. Most people think that is over for the rest of your life, that is not completely true, not at all, if you have...

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    By the way you describe it you may have it so start by learrning about it and "don't be panic" about it because that right there " triggers" the outbreaks. you don't have to stop having sex or feel depressed about it, I can tell you because I care. Most people think that is over for the rest of your life, that is not completely true, not at all, if you have it with time you, by just looking at the gestures, change of mood, and other actions in  people will be able to tell they have it so don't feel like you are "filthy" idiots and ignorant people say things like that.

    1st get to eat stuff that is healthy, some veggies, nothing dramatic in change, if you are eating already healthy more likely you won't have outbreaks after a few months and like I said keep a good attitude and it will be gone, it is all about a good inmune system. I am not a "scientist or a bacteriologist" but I read so much about this topic back in the days ( and met so many with this sickness) that it made me a well knowledgeable person. You are 14, So? Don't be embarrassed and live on. In a few years you'll remember this comment from me...and smile.

  • Anonymous
    Student43
    Feb. 17, 2009

    Your pretty much fucked.

    Get to a health clinic and get your shit checked out.

    If it is herpes you might be able to catch it at an early stage.

    Good luck and dont share chapstick!!

  • Anonymous
    Carmen
    Jan. 15, 2009

    hello my name is soffy. i want it to give you an opinion if you really have a good communication with your mom she will be the first to know about it, she will be mad because you are so young to be already in a relationship, but she is the best person to talk too, give her your confidence, and i know she will give you hers too. bad situations can be fixed if...

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    hello my name is soffy. i want it to give you an opinion if you really have a good communication with your mom she will be the first to know about it, she will be mad because you are so young to be already in a relationship, but she is the best person to talk too, give her your confidence, and i know she will give you hers too. bad situations can be fixed if you take care right away, also she can take you to a doctor before things get worset. this guy was your first but maybe you don't when was his first for him. take care of yourself i am a 48 years old mom, and i know very well my 3 daughters they are older now but everytime they need and adviced they come to me first. let me know how thing goes. love soffy

  • Anonymous
    bob
    Jan. 09, 2009

    alrigght desprit for help i think i gott herpies butt i dont know

     

    i have been with this chick for a good while and i finally gave into having sex with her adn noticed 3 days after the bumps and itching sensation on my male organ and scared to tell mom and dad

     

    please help

     

    im only 13

    • Anonymous
      Jennie
      Jan. 14, 2009

      Awww honey its ok dont be scared to tell your mom shell help you thru it all. yes your only 13 and u shouldnt be havein sex yet but we have all done it in our lifes im 24 and i had sex for the first time around your age soo its not a bad thing we all do it. tell your mom hun so you can go get the help you need please

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Nov. 22, 2008

    Try to talk to your mothere what happen to you because she is the only friend you have. Even you grow up and get married you always remain that little baby for your parents.

    Do it befor its to late.

  • Anonymous
    Luke Claringbould
    Nov. 09, 2008

    LOL you got super pwned!! vagina lemony lumps id laughif your head got the herpes id be all lyk LOLOLOLOLOLOOLOLOLOL you should go make a sandwarge. chuck norris could roundhouse your herpes out of you, but yu wuld porobz havto giz him a dollar or two yur nipple are lemony fresh go make a sandwarge.

  • Anonymous
    sienna barrett
    Nov. 09, 2008

    LOL u is a whore ^^ lol u suck lolololololloololololololololololololololololololololololol

     

     

    slut slut

     

    go make me a sandwidge ^^

  • Anonymous
    Tolulope
    Nov. 03, 2008

    Girl, i honestly think the best you can do for yourself is to discuss it with your mother, whatever she does after that is cuz she honestly loves you/cuz shes your bestfriend, She will figure out for you how to get the proper treatment from a gynecologist.

    Shes still the best bet cuz after that she would guide you so mistakes like this will not occur...

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    Girl, i honestly think the best you can do for yourself is to discuss it with your mother, whatever she does after that is cuz she honestly loves you/cuz shes your bestfriend, She will figure out for you how to get the proper treatment from a gynecologist.

    Shes still the best bet cuz after that she would guide you so mistakes like this will not occur again. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Oct. 24, 2008

    think positive and tell you mom whats going on. you will be fine. good luck and she is not an idiot only god know what some of you who make negative comment did in your life

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Oct. 22, 2008

    U ARE THE RUDEST PERSON EVER. U PROB DO HAVE HERPIES. THATS SO RUDE TO DO THAT TO A 14 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO NEEDS HELP THAT WHAT WERE HERE FOR TO HELP HER. U PROB NEED TO KEEP UR FISHY LEGS SHUT. SO PLEASE SHUT UP AND STOP HURTING HER FEELING UR A HOMO

     

    BUT YEAH GO AND GET HELP AND LIFE WILL BECOME MUCH EASIER IF U HAD AN ADULT TO TALK TO. THAT WILL UNDERSTAND...

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    U ARE THE RUDEST PERSON EVER. U PROB DO HAVE HERPIES. THATS SO RUDE TO DO THAT TO A 14 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO NEEDS HELP THAT WHAT WERE HERE FOR TO HELP HER. U PROB NEED TO KEEP UR FISHY LEGS SHUT. SO PLEASE SHUT UP AND STOP HURTING HER FEELING UR A HOMO

     

    BUT YEAH GO AND GET HELP AND LIFE WILL BECOME MUCH EASIER IF U HAD AN ADULT TO TALK TO. THAT WILL UNDERSTAND ITS OKAY SOMETIMES

  • Anonymous
    lil rican
    Sep. 22, 2008

    if i was u go and talk to your mom now... she will help u i got it too u know so if u want to chat go to mysp add me oneloveluz@yahoo.com

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Sep. 16, 2008

    i'm sorry to tell you but it sounds like herpes to me. i have genital herpes and i got it from a guy i was dating and fooling around with. he never told me even though he knew. when i confronted him he started to cry and said he was scared it would push me away. chances are your friend knew he has it but was scared to tell you. if my now ex boyfriend would...

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    i'm sorry to tell you but it sounds like herpes to me. i have genital herpes and i got it from a guy i was dating and fooling around with. he never told me even though he knew. when i confronted him he started to cry and said he was scared it would push me away. chances are your friend knew he has it but was scared to tell you. if my now ex boyfriend would have just told me i probably would have continued to be with him and just practiced safer sex. get tested and dont be afraid that no one will be with you because there are people who look at who you are not what you have. i have just met a wonderful man who is willing to be with me and love me even though i have an STD. never loose hope!!!!

  • Anonymous
    Albert Signorel...
    Sep. 05, 2008

    I am a retired dentist. In my many years of practice I  successfully treated herpies simplex of the mouth. I've wondered if this treatment might also cure genital herpies.

    s24twin1@verizon.net

    • Anonymous
      A Victim NO MORE
      Jun. 28, 2009

      Isn't it true that you had your license " REVOKED FOR CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE" 16 years ago?

       The dental board found you guilty and revoked your license FOREVER!!!!!

  • whutisiz
    Aug. 23, 2008

    I think im going thru the same thing. I had these 2 bumps on one side of my vagina and now they feel like burns or something. They hurt if i touch them. I think it might be herpes 2. And I have been with the same man for 6 years since i was 14 and im now 20. But he had a fever blister on his lip and he performed oral sex on me and i think thats how i got...

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    I think im going thru the same thing. I had these 2 bumps on one side of my vagina and now they feel like burns or something. They hurt if i touch them. I think it might be herpes 2. And I have been with the same man for 6 years since i was 14 and im now 20. But he had a fever blister on his lip and he performed oral sex on me and i think thats how i got it. But im going to get checked out monday. If u go before me let me know what they tell you and if i go first i will let u kno what they tell me.

    • Anonymous
      shay
      Sep. 04, 2008

      i defintly kno wat ur goin through my bestfriend had it an she waz sick alot an i did erything i could to help her like: taking her2 the docters,paying for her2 eat,an other stuff. i really wanted her2 get better but all she did waz get worse.well one day i got a call from the docter saying that she had past away Cry i waz histerical!!! but all i can tell...

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      i defintly kno wat ur goin through my bestfriend had it an she waz sick alot an i did erything i could to help her like: taking her2 the docters,paying for her2 eat,an other stuff. i really wanted her2 get better but all she did waz get worse.well one day i got a call from the docter saying that she had past away Cry i waz histerical!!! but all i can tell u is to tell ur mom an next tyme use a CONDOM!!! well i wish u luck!!! <3

    • Anonymous
      _
      Dec. 04, 2009

      i started off with 2 bumps, they turned into 3.... and now there is way more than 3. it hurts to walk and i think its scabbing over cuz their bleeding. what should i do?!

  • Anonymous
    Melanie
    Aug. 12, 2008

    You can definatley go by yourself. Go to your local clinic and they can't refuse you and they will not tell your parents even if they ask! You need to get this checked out as soon as possible! If you wait too long it can cause scaring and you might not be able to have children.

     

    Melanie

  • Anonymous
    marylin
    Aug. 02, 2008

    yes,,,,you could go and have these test done and is confedential ....go to a hospital and speak to a gyn couselor and there will give you and advice......or try to seek a clinic or hospital that has family planning that is for teenagers......but if you want an advice you should try to tell your mom just for your safety.......as a women and a mother ...I was...

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    yes,,,,you could go and have these test done and is confedential ....go to a hospital and speak to a gyn couselor and there will give you and advice......or try to seek a clinic or hospital that has family planning that is for teenagers......but if you want an advice you should try to tell your mom just for your safety.......as a women and a mother ...I was too your age once and i also have herpys...but sometimes as a parent we are always to over protective but in the long run your mom will always be there for you ...good or bad and the only one you could count on......if you need extra advice email me ......ladyny1967@aol.com

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Aug. 02, 2008

    Sweetheart, I'm a mom and my advice to you is tell your mom.  Regardless of how scared you are, you're mom is and will always be your very best friend.  I'm 28 and when i was your age i didn't realize my mom would be the only person who'd never leave my corner, no matter what.

  • Anonymous
    shankwah jonson
    Jul. 25, 2008

    well after carefuly reviewin gyou articlt i have come to the conclusion that you a skank hoe. yea i said it...skank hoe...i ain't tryne hate cuz i be havin herpis of the ass and month............but it's all good. we can be herpie friends. hit me up gurl. yeah yeah...shankwah jonson and her herpie possy.

     

     

    P.S

    stay away from that dirth dik...

    you...

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    well after carefuly reviewin gyou articlt i have come to the conclusion that you a skank hoe. yea i said it...skank hoe...i ain't tryne hate cuz i be havin herpis of the ass and month............but it's all good. we can be herpie friends. hit me up gurl. yeah yeah...shankwah jonson and her herpie possy.

     

     

    P.S

    stay away from that dirth dik...

    you crusty coochie hoe... much love...peace

    xoxooxooooxoxoxoxxoxoxo

  • Anonymous
    mary
    Jul. 24, 2008

    Please get tested as soon as possible.Im 32 and just found out i have herpes.Dont worry about your mom im sure she will support u.The best defense is knowledge so u dont give it to anyone else.You can live a normal life as long as your careful.But you have to inform any partner you have if you do have herpes.Its not the end of the world because you have this...

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    Please get tested as soon as possible.Im 32 and just found out i have herpes.Dont worry about your mom im sure she will support u.The best defense is knowledge so u dont give it to anyone else.You can live a normal life as long as your careful.But you have to inform any partner you have if you do have herpes.Its not the end of the world because you have this disease.Its treatable and its better to know than not.I hope you find the courage to get the help you need. good luck.

  • Anonymous
    laura12
    Jul. 16, 2008

    I am 16 years old, and lost my virginity to a 22 year old. we always used protection when we have sex. put i recenty noticed bumped on the outside of my vaginal lips. Ive only seen 2. could it be possible ingrown hairs? they dont look red at all, just bumps. im scared, and i come from a really strict family so talking to them is out of the picture.

  • Anonymous
    Smile
    Jun. 18, 2008

    Yes it does sound like symptoms of genital herpes. I am sorry to hear that you may have this at such a young age. However I will say that you should get a check up as soon as possible and so should your partner. You are old enough to go to a doctor by yourself.Look for  a low- income clinic where testing is pracically free, so you will not have to pay...

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    Yes it does sound like symptoms of genital herpes. I am sorry to hear that you may have this at such a young age. However I will say that you should get a check up as soon as possible and so should your partner. You are old enough to go to a doctor by yourself.Look for  a low- income clinic where testing is pracically free, so you will not have to pay too much. Once you get your results,pray and share it with your mom. Holding onto a secret like this will only devastate you. Hearing news like this  and feeling the horrible symptoms is hard enough. I am also infected but I believe God for my healing. Stay in the word of God and keep your immune system healthy and enjoy your life~ be careful sexually. But be happy and trust in the Lord, your life is just beginning. Praying for you and knowing God will take care of you!Smile

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Jun. 13, 2008

    You should go and get it checked no matter what! Just because you don't have it on your mouth means nothing....any exposure to to it...a cut or somethings even something smaller than that it can spread. And although the oral version (Simplex 1) is different than the genital (Simplex 2). Sometimes you can spread the oral one (without symptoms from your partner)...

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    You should go and get it checked no matter what! Just because you don't have it on your mouth means nothing....any exposure to to it...a cut or somethings even something smaller than that it can spread. And although the oral version (Simplex 1) is different than the genital (Simplex 2). Sometimes you can spread the oral one (without symptoms from your partner) to your genitals. I'm 26 and I just told my mom and it didn't go too well...but hey she called me back 3 days later and we are at least working thru it...they have to understand we are US and its OUT LIFE and we make mistakes; no reflection on them. Just keep your thinking cap on from now on and TRY to be more SAFE...but medical attention & KNOWLEDGE is what you need NOW...more than your mom's approval or respect! Good luck :)  

  • Anonymous
    maria bell
    May. 23, 2008

    how soon will a woman now if she has got herpys

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    May. 08, 2008

    There are two types of herpes type 1 and 2. You can visit Valtrex.com for lots of information...You can visit the free health clinic where you don't need a parent escort. Type 1 is oral which is common among most people example fever blisters. Type 1 can be transmitted through oral sex which leads into having genital herpes type 1. It is less likely to have...

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    There are two types of herpes type 1 and 2. You can visit Valtrex.com for lots of information...You can visit the free health clinic where you don't need a parent escort. Type 1 is oral which is common among most people example fever blisters. Type 1 can be transmitted through oral sex which leads into having genital herpes type 1. It is less likely to have an outbreak because type 1 hates to live down below. Type 2 is sexual transmitted but could lay dormat for years and you may not ever have an outbreak.  Please get your self tested..If the results are positive they can put you on supressive therpy which is just a pill a day to protect you from having outbreaks or speading the virus..

  • herpesfindercom
    Apr. 17, 2008

    helo, My friends has same issue with you. maybe you can ask her! She is a member of the STD dating site http://www.STDromance.com

  • Anonymous
    anonymous
    Mar. 24, 2008

    You can harbor herpes for years and not know it!

    I was married to my husband for 5 years and during my last pregnancy I started to show the symptoms of herpies.  I was checked and it was! And I was shocked.  I had not cheated and my husband did not have it.  But then I learned you can have it and not know.  I just thought I would...

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    You can harbor herpes for years and not know it!

    I was married to my husband for 5 years and during my last pregnancy I started to show the symptoms of herpies.  I was checked and it was! And I was shocked.  I had not cheated and my husband did not have it.  But then I learned you can have it and not know.  I just thought I would share my story.

  • Anonymous
    Leasha
    Mar. 24, 2008
    Sweetie try to find a health department, and call and see if you can go check it out without your parents.  If not they may be able to help you further.  Hang in there!  And try to find someone you can confide in.  I wish you the best sweetie.
  • Anonymous
    moving on
    Mar. 18, 2008
    im in the same boat you are. i lost my virginity to my boyfriend, we dated for almost two years. he never showed signs but then i did. he didnt believe me either. we just broke up and i've finally decided to get tested, im going tomarrow. i need to know before my seventeenth birthday and before i can move on. wish me good luck. and good luck to you hun...
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    im in the same boat you are. i lost my virginity to my boyfriend, we dated for almost two years. he never showed signs but then i did. he didnt believe me either. we just broke up and i've finally decided to get tested, im going tomarrow. i need to know before my seventeenth birthday and before i can move on. wish me good luck. and good luck to you hun
    • whutisiz
      Aug. 23, 2008

      what signs did u have that made u think it was herpes?

  • Anonymous
    mellisa
    Mar. 06, 2008
    lately ive been having a milky white discharge and my vagina has been itching and burning sensation.(in the outer lips and inner) i dnt understand whats going on. it feels as though my vagina is peeling i really don't know.what do you think?
    • Anonymous
      granma
      Nov. 25, 2008

      It sounds to me like you have a very bad yeast infection or possibly a fungus infection.  I have had them after taking antibiotics alot.  Go to your doc or free clinic, or planned parent hood and get the meds.  I've had a fungus infection ( don't know how I got it, just did) and my lips swelled up like leather balls!  It hurt and itched...

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      It sounds to me like you have a very bad yeast infection or possibly a fungus infection.  I have had them after taking antibiotics alot.  Go to your doc or free clinic, or planned parent hood and get the meds.  I've had a fungus infection ( don't know how I got it, just did) and my lips swelled up like leather balls!  It hurt and itched really bad.

      Could also be an STD???  Expecially if it has a really bad odor.

    • Anonymous
      Holdin'On
      Feb. 11, 2010

      Sorry my suggestion is so late... I hope you got some help.

      I had the same symptoms and I think it was a very resistant yeast infection.

      Two different doctors gave me all sorts of antibiotics and creams but nothing helped and some seemed to make it even worse! I found by keeping the discharge off my skin, it would relieve the itching around my vagina.

      I never...

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      Sorry my suggestion is so late... I hope you got some help.

      I had the same symptoms and I think it was a very resistant yeast infection.

      Two different doctors gave me all sorts of antibiotics and creams but nothing helped and some seemed to make it even worse! I found by keeping the discharge off my skin, it would relieve the itching around my vagina.

      I never felt good enough to have sex which caused some HUGE martial problems... (now I am divorced)

      Desperate, I finally found a resource online that suggested oral PRO-BIOTICS. I bought some at Trader Joe's and stocked up on yogurt... and amazingly in just a couple weeks (after months on and off of the terrible symptoms you described) it was gone!

      I don't know if it will work in every case but as I said before, my doctors had given up on me.

       

  • Anonymous
    melissa
    Feb. 24, 2008
    hi im 18 and im pregnant i want you to know your not the only one out there yong you can talk to me at chickyxx@aol.com
  • Anonymous
    renate hadley
    Feb. 18, 2008
     check if ur boyfriend recently had a cold sore on his mouth, if he gave u oral u may just have the cold sore infection down below, if so a doctor will prescribe an antiviral
  • Anonymous
    MD
    Feb. 15, 2008
    It is absolutely possible to get herpes from oral sex.  Two viruses cause herpes - HSV 1 (for herpes simplex virus 1) and HSV 2.  HSV 1 typically occurs as cold sores on the mouth and HSV 2 typically occurs as genital lesions but you can get either virus anywhere on your body if exposed to it.  It is entirely possible to get HSV1 (or...
    RHMLucky777
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    It is absolutely possible to get herpes from oral sex.  Two viruses cause herpes - HSV 1 (for herpes simplex virus 1) and HSV 2.  HSV 1 typically occurs as cold sores on the mouth and HSV 2 typically occurs as genital lesions but you can get either virus anywhere on your body if exposed to it.  It is entirely possible to get HSV1 (or HSV 2) only on your genitals even if you were exposed to it on your mouth as well.  There are medications (such as Valtrex) that treat both HSV 1 and 2 and they are most effective if started as soon as symptoms start.  HSV 1 and 2 infections are not "curable", meaning you will always have herpes, therefore it is important to find out if this is what you have (sounds like it is).  Your doctor can also test you to see if it is HSV 1 or 2.  In many states minors can be tested and treated for STDs and/or pregnancy WITHOUT parental consent.  In this case it would be illegal for your doctor to disclose STD/pregnancy information to anyone, including your parents.  To find the laws for your state, you can google "emancipated minor", or try this website http://www.law.cornell.edu/topics/Table_Emancipation.htm
  • Anonymous
    Jilli Fixit
    Jan. 30, 2008

    Hi Dolly;

    I am sooo sorry this happened to you and you are very brave for trying to find help on your own!  But you don't have to...I have been through a lot with my girls.  I love them to pieces.  I got mad at them sometimes for not doing their chores or being disrespectful.  These were LITTLE things.  I NEVER...

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    Hi Dolly;

    I am sooo sorry this happened to you and you are very brave for trying to find help on your own!  But you don't have to...I have been through a lot with my girls.  I love them to pieces.  I got mad at them sometimes for not doing their chores or being disrespectful.  These were LITTLE things.  I NEVER ever got mad at them for coming to me with their problems, especially if it was around their sexual health or intimacy.  No matter how old they were, I was their Mom and I was always their to support and care about them!  So Dolly, it's been a while since you posted.  I hope you have found out it's something easy to cure or that you have told your Folks and they have helped you.  Pls let us know how it turns out...

     

    If other Girls or Boys(or even Mom and Dad's if they are single and sexually active, like me) are still reading and are in the same boat, remember your parents(your children) love you above all else!  Nothing could ever stop them from loving you! Pls tell them and as a family you can go through this healing process.  It may make all the difference!!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Jan. 24, 2008

    Well I understand you, its very scary that you might have it and im in the same boat... like i found out i have herpies and well... its not fair how i got it and im worried about if people find out that i have herpies im going to be pushed away and be called dirty and other things and im just not that strong to take that... my parents asked me how...

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    Well I understand you, its very scary that you might have it and im in the same boat... like i found out i have herpies and well... its not fair how i got it and im worried about if people find out that i have herpies im going to be pushed away and be called dirty and other things and im just not that strong to take that... my parents asked me how my doctors appointment went and i broke down crying and they were really supportive.. my sister understands completely and she told me that it will be alright and that people live with it and still enjoy life and honestly i dont know how i can... I was even thinking about killing off the jerk that gave me it and then killing myself off too but my family told me that its stupid to think like that because maybe in a couple of years they might come up with a cure....So my advice is tell your mom, its not something she would get mad over, Im sure she would understand and comfort you as best as she possibly can. Its an important thing to tell her because she could get it from you if that is what you have... Your not alone remember that.

  • Anonymous
    Jac
    Jan. 17, 2008
    About two weeks ago  i was with this chick who has herpes or whatever. Of course i asked if she had an std and like a liar she said no. So i gave her oral and she didint tell me she had it untill today. So my question is can i catch it while she is not having an outbreak or whtever they are called.
    • Anonymous
      N~H
      Mar. 16, 2008
      srry jac but herpes can be passed even if there r no visual signs.
  • Anonymous
    nicole
    Jan. 13, 2008
    A dating site for Singles with herpes, HPV, HIV+ and other STD. If you have been recently diagnosed with genital herpes, you may be upset and confused and think your sex life is over. However, once you settle down and learn the facts, you'll realize that having genital herpes is not the end of the world, and it's not the end of your social life. ...
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    A dating site for Singles with herpes, HPV, HIV+ and other STD. If you have been recently diagnosed with genital herpes, you may be upset and confused and think your sex life is over. However, once you settle down and learn the facts, you'll realize that having genital herpes is not the end of the world, and it's not the end of your social life.  go to STDromance.com
  • joyfulmind
    Dec. 27, 2007

    I'm positive I contracted Herpes from a one night stand with a friend. I've been tested for other std's and all is ok with those. I've done all the reasearch so I know about HerpesI guess I'm looking for men who have had a similar experience.

    I came across a support section like some herpes dating support site. That forum is the best I've...

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    I'm positive I contracted Herpes from a one night stand with a friend. I've been tested for other std's and all is ok with those. I've done all the reasearch so I know about HerpesI guess I'm looking for men who have had a similar experience.

    I came across a support section like some herpes dating support site. That forum is the best I've found and people would answer your questions by all means. I've felt so much better since I found it. Thank you so much http://herpesmates.com

  • Anonymous
    SHANIEKA
    Dec. 23, 2007
    yes u can go by yourself you dont need a family member for that becuse thats something that u have to check up on about by yourself. And the only thing that u need to bring with u is your medicate card and go while the bumps are still there because they want be able to test for it only if the bumps are there. AND IF U SEE THAT U DO HAVE IT TURST ME. BUT DONT...
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    yes u can go by yourself you dont need a family member for that becuse thats something that u have to check up on about by yourself. And the only thing that u need to bring with u is your medicate card and go while the bumps are still there because they want be able to test for it only if the bumps are there. AND IF U SEE THAT U DO HAVE IT TURST ME. BUT DONT BOTHER ABOUT IT BEACUSE THE BUMPS WILL GO AWAY THEY ONLY COME UP WHEN U ARE STRESS OUT. SO JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND. THERE IS NO CURE SO ITS WITH U FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND ALWAYS WERE A CONDOM WHEN U DO HAVE SEX.
  • Anonymous
    kRYSTAL
    Dec. 21, 2007

    ALRIGHT, IM 17YRS OLD AND I RECENTLY STARTED DATING THIS GUY WHO DIDNT SHOW EITHER.

    BUT I AM ALSO GOING THREW THE SAME THING.

    WHEN I GOT CHECKED IT WAS ONLY A CHECK UP. THE DOCTOR TOLD ME IT IS MOST LIKELY GENITAL HERPIES..ITS GONNA HURT AT FIRST WHEN YOU GET THE NEWS BUT AS SOON AS YOU ACCEPT IT LIFE ISNT OVER. IM STILL WITH THE SAME GUY BUT IM STILL NOT SURE...

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    ALRIGHT, IM 17YRS OLD AND I RECENTLY STARTED DATING THIS GUY WHO DIDNT SHOW EITHER.

    BUT I AM ALSO GOING THREW THE SAME THING.

    WHEN I GOT CHECKED IT WAS ONLY A CHECK UP. THE DOCTOR TOLD ME IT IS MOST LIKELY GENITAL HERPIES..ITS GONNA HURT AT FIRST WHEN YOU GET THE NEWS BUT AS SOON AS YOU ACCEPT IT LIFE ISNT OVER. IM STILL WITH THE SAME GUY BUT IM STILL NOT SURE WHAT I HAVE. THE DOCTOR ALSO TOLD ME IT COULD BE A YEAST INFECTION...SO PRAY FOR THE BEST....BUT YEAH, FOR SURE TELL YOUR MOTHER SHE'L BE THERE 100% TO HELP...SHE IS YOUR ONLY SUPPORT SYSTEM!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Dec. 20, 2007
    It sounds like you definetly have Genital Herpies! Your only 14 it sucks that for the rest of your life you will have this problem definetly tell your mom! If you dont bad things can happen, also DO NOT SEE THAT GUY ANYMORE! Sorry for the bad news
  • Anonymous
    abc
    Dec. 04, 2007

    Hi hunny,

    The same thing happened to me through oral sex. I have oral herpes on my genitals.  It sounds like you do. I was with my boyrfriend and he never showed any signs. You should definantly go to the doctor, find a planned parenthood in your area and talk to them.  They are very knowledgeable, call 411 and find one and you can even talk...

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    Hi hunny,

    The same thing happened to me through oral sex. I have oral herpes on my genitals.  It sounds like you do. I was with my boyrfriend and he never showed any signs. You should definantly go to the doctor, find a planned parenthood in your area and talk to them.  They are very knowledgeable, call 411 and find one and you can even talk to them over the phone.

    • Anonymous
      Ricky
      Dec. 17, 2007
      do you have to be 18 years or older?
  • Anonymous
    gladys
    Oct. 23, 2007
    you have to take care of ur self.dont trust any body.have sex but be careful,if they have it they not going to tellyou.please take care of your self.you can go to see a dr,by your self.god bless you. galy.49year old froom ny..
    • marcie
      Feb. 15, 2011

      i am really afraid to tell i have had sex but now i am in trouble my mummy say wen i come home after school i am going to the doctor an if they say i was having sex i am going 2 girls

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Oct. 18, 2007
    usually people can go to a clinic by themselves in order to get birth control and checked. i would suggest to go check it out. sweetheart, hang in there! fortunately, you will not die from this
  • Anonymous
    erickabritt
    Oct. 04, 2007
    you might have a yest in fection or youor hair bumps that's alli can tell you might have crabs that's what you might  have the migh have bitten you down therethat's all i can tell you go to the doctor let them check you out and  see what the out come is alright just pray to  god  and   ask him  for guidanceok you...
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    you might have a yest in fection or youor hair bumps that's alli can tell you might have crabs that's what you might  have the migh have bitten you down therethat's all i can tell you go to the doctor let them check you out and  see what the out come is alright just pray to  god  and   ask him  for guidanceok you be bless and second of all you are you to young to  have sex just wait on your husband  sex is not worth i t just wait finsh scool go to college  get your education  and then find the right person then you'll fell betterInnocentbe bless
    • Anonymous
      emma
      Jan. 29, 2009

      I waited for my husband of four years and now i think i have herpes , he had sex with another person with a condom way before we started to go out that was about 7 years ago, and when we got married i was his second sex partner and he was my first. So sometimes waiting for your husband isn't safe either.

  • Anonymous
    kiara
    Sep. 12, 2007
    listen i feel real bad but if u really wanna be treated older and with respect my opinion is u should tell ur mother and since i have that kind of relationship with her i also think u should too. it would be very important that u tell somebody before it get worse but like i said, im srry 2 hear that hope u do something bout it very soon.
  • Anonymous
    TJ
    Aug. 26, 2007
    It is my understanding that Herpies "1" the oral herpies is a bunch of bumps or group of acne like breakout.  Herpies "2" genital herpies is a single large bump much like a large zit. The frist time someone gets genital herpies they get sick real sick (like worse flu you ever had sick) Three months is a long time between contact and...
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    It is my understanding that Herpies "1" the oral herpies is a bunch of bumps or group of acne like breakout.  Herpies "2" genital herpies is a single large bump much like a large zit. The frist time someone gets genital herpies they get sick real sick (like worse flu you ever had sick) Three months is a long time between contact and and the FIRST break out.  I'm no doctor.  It's best to just get tested.  Or ask some face to face questions with someone you know is a health care professional.  I could be wrong be a typical time line would be contact, a week later sick, a month after that the first break out. (again genital herpies) Also just FYI the ads you see on TV may not have all the details. Remember their tring to sell something!
    • Anonymous
      Anonymous
      Aug. 29, 2008

      I would like to add a coment to your reply TJ...... Since I contracted herpes about 4 years ago I've been doing a lot of research on it. Generally the first outbreak occurs within 2 weeks of contracting it, but there are people just like myself who have never had an outbreak. Sometimes it takes years before the first outbreak occurs. Herpes is a virus that...

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      I would like to add a coment to your reply TJ...... Since I contracted herpes about 4 years ago I've been doing a lot of research on it. Generally the first outbreak occurs within 2 weeks of contracting it, but there are people just like myself who have never had an outbreak. Sometimes it takes years before the first outbreak occurs. Herpes is a virus that attacks the immune system. So the stronger a persons immune system is, the less likely they are to ever have any outbreaks at all.

    • Anonymous
      Kat
      Oct. 23, 2008

      Hi first of all I want to commend all the people who supported this teen when someone attacked her......we all make mistakes through out our lives no matter our age that is how we learn ....I am 44 yrs old and have had sex 2 times since 2005 and just went to the dr. because I had this strange rash that has turned out to be herpes the last time i  had unprotected...

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      Hi first of all I want to commend all the people who supported this teen when someone attacked her......we all make mistakes through out our lives no matter our age that is how we learn ....I am 44 yrs old and have had sex 2 times since 2005 and just went to the dr. because I had this strange rash that has turned out to be herpes the last time i  had unprotected sex was more than 2 yrs. ago I am under extreme stress these days and that is what has apparently caused this outbreak at the time the dr. told me it can take as long as ten yrs to present itself.  I was in a relationship with someone and had unprotected sex I trusted him and that seems to be my first mistake he swore to me he was not having unprotected sex with anyone elese and i learned the hard way that was a lie....he was in his fifties and I 40 he gave me an std .....when he found out about it he came to me thank god....but apparently he gave me more than 1 now 3 yrs. later I am suffering ....I am so sorry this happened to you and futhermore I am sorry you were attacked when trying to seek help adults should be smarter than that and I know how you feel about going to your parents.   If you decide not to that is your choice.  But there are other ways to get support and keeping outbreaks to a min.  take care of yourself and much luck keep seeking answers.  

    • Anonymous
      April
      Mar. 06, 2009

      There are many people out there dealing with the same problems whether we want to believe that or not. You are never alone and there is always someone willing to help you and teach you.

       

      If you ever need any questions asked about genital herpes or any other health problem for that matter try talking to

      <a href="http://www.callcarenet.com/products-nursecare.asp...

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      There are many people out there dealing with the same problems whether we want to believe that or not. You are never alone and there is always someone willing to help you and teach you.

       

      If you ever need any questions asked about genital herpes or any other health problem for that matter try talking to

      <a href="http://www.callcarenet.com/products-nursecare.asp"> Ask a Nurse </a> http://www.callcarenet.com/products-nursecare.asp

       

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    • Anonymous
      ashlie
      May. 25, 2011

      so what happens when you fall pregnant will this effect your birth or baby? 

    • Anonymous
      leanne n
      Mar. 24, 2009

      I myself just got dianosed with herpies 1. They have tryed valtrex on me 3 time's and it hasn't worked. Of course everytime they put me on valtrex they only give me three day's worth. And it's only 1mg. Does it come in a higher mg?

       I am going on 36 year's old and been with the same man for 3 year's and never had a disease in my life. I feel crapy sence...

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      I myself just got dianosed with herpies 1. They have tryed valtrex on me 3 time's and it hasn't worked. Of course everytime they put me on valtrex they only give me three day's worth. And it's only 1mg. Does it come in a higher mg?

       I am going on 36 year's old and been with the same man for 3 year's and never had a disease in my life. I feel crapy sence I can't have sex and so dowm like my life was taken from me.

       I first noticed when I got em I was itching all around and then sa all the little bump's even around my anal. And there still there after a month. Yet my doctor keep's telling me they will go away. Is she telling me the truth? Will I ever be able to enjoy sex again? And will he ever be able to give me oral sex? I'm so scard. I'm not only itching but i burn when i pee and I have a real bad smelly discharge.

    • gab
      gab
      Apr. 28, 2009

      Hey there...

      Pls pls go to a doctor, or a gynacologist!!!!!!

      Thats NOT normal!!!

      Herpes sores usually go away after a few days, and discharge is usually an indication of an infection, best to get it checked out asap if you havnt already!!!!

    • Anonymous
      Anonymous
      Jun. 02, 2009

      I was also told a little while ago that I have herpes type 1 as well. I caught it off my boyfriend who suffered from cold sores around the mouth as a teenager. I was put on Vatrex for ten days taking two tablets a day (1000mg in total) and everything cleared up.

       

      I know its annoying, but hold in there....it will pass. If you're having problems with...

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      I was also told a little while ago that I have herpes type 1 as well. I caught it off my boyfriend who suffered from cold sores around the mouth as a teenager. I was put on Vatrex for ten days taking two tablets a day (1000mg in total) and everything cleared up.

       

      I know its annoying, but hold in there....it will pass. If you're having problems with peeing, jump in a warm shower and pee....it doesn't burn. I found this helped for me as I had a similar problem.

       

      Stay strong!

    • Anonymous
      amanda
      Jul. 20, 2011


      hi D:) i am sorry to hear that ,but Don't upset by herpes .may u come to these related site like "herpesanddating.net" or
      "DatingHerpesSingles.com" for help, many stds people there .Just feel free to chat, share stories, make friends or have sex in your local area.

    • Anonymous
      leanne r
      Mar. 25, 2009

       I myself was diagnosed with herpies 1. I am a 35 year old women and have been with the same man for 3 year's now, and i feel like my life was taken away. I still don't know how i got em. My biggest fear is i will never be able to enjoy having sex with my husband again or him giving me oral sex. I have had this for a month now. They have had me on valtrex...

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       I myself was diagnosed with herpies 1. I am a 35 year old women and have been with the same man for 3 year's now, and i feel like my life was taken away. I still don't know how i got em. My biggest fear is i will never be able to enjoy having sex with my husband again or him giving me oral sex. I have had this for a month now. They have had me on valtrex 3 time's and nothing has helped. Yet the doctor's say's they should be gone. Will they ever go away? I also know that I have a bad oder and alot of yellow discharge. Do you? I did realize that they only put me on 1 mg of valtrex is there more mg;s?  

  • Anonymous
    Jenni
    Aug. 13, 2007

    Find a planned parenthood by you and they will have a gonocolist look at it and tell you. Its very private and your parents cant find out because its confidential. www.plannedparenthood.com

     

    find one near you and good luck <3

     

     

    I know u think ur ready but 14 is young, Just because you have been together 7 months dosnt mean they wont leave you....

    RHMLucky777

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    Find a planned parenthood by you and they will have a gonocolist look at it and tell you. Its very private and your parents cant find out because its confidential. www.plannedparenthood.com

     

    find one near you and good luck <3

     

     

    I know u think ur ready but 14 is young, Just because you have been together 7 months dosnt mean they wont leave you. It happened to me at 15 so were not that far apart

     

    You can msg me at goodgrl1624@yahoo.com

  • Anonymous
    New York State EMT
    Aug. 12, 2007
    I am a EMT and dont have a vast knowledge with STDs but i do know that if it envolves your health parent are always supportive and i think you should tell your mom and take the advise of most of the people here and go to the clinic. who ever wrote the comment about the masterbating and the underage sex wow you are stupid.
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Aug. 05, 2007

    LISTEN WHO EVER WROTE DAT COMMENT BOUT HAVING SEX AT A YOUNG AGE WELL LISTEN IM 14 N LOST MINEZ WHEN I WAS 13.. DONT GO AROUND BEING RUDE TO NICE PPL IT WILL COME BACK BUT MY ADVICE TO U KATE IS TELL YOUR MOM GO TO DA CLINIC GET SOME TREATMENT AND B ON YOUR WAY DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT PPL SAY JUST KEEP YA HEAD UP.. I MEAN I CANT SAY MUCH CAUSE I DONT HAVE IT...

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    LISTEN WHO EVER WROTE DAT COMMENT BOUT HAVING SEX AT A YOUNG AGE WELL LISTEN IM 14 N LOST MINEZ WHEN I WAS 13.. DONT GO AROUND BEING RUDE TO NICE PPL IT WILL COME BACK BUT MY ADVICE TO U KATE IS TELL YOUR MOM GO TO DA CLINIC GET SOME TREATMENT AND B ON YOUR WAY DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT PPL SAY JUST KEEP YA HEAD UP.. I MEAN I CANT SAY MUCH CAUSE I DONT HAVE IT AND I PLAN ON NOT EVER HAVING IT JUST B SAFE DA NEXT TIME MUCH SUPPORT GOES TO YOU

     

    • melissa
      Jan. 12, 2013
      hello everyone,
         i want to appreciate Dr Okoase for the great work and help he has render to me, i was in a relationship with my man for 5years all of a sudden he break up with me never knew he is not coming back to until i seek the help of Dr Okoase to bring him back to me with his historical powers. the most reason why i am glad is that i now have...
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      hello everyone,
         i want to appreciate Dr Okoase for the great work and help he has render to me, i was in a relationship with my man for 5years all of a sudden he break up with me never knew he is not coming back to until i seek the help of Dr Okoase to bring him back to me with his historical powers. the most reason why i am glad is that i now have someone that can be helping me in any way of my problem, not only in a relationship problem but in every aspect of my life. i can boldly say i am the first person that Dr Okoase have help this new year 2013, so with this i will give him all the thanks for the help he has done for me this season. so i will not be greedy enough to hide his email so that you will not contact him cause i know you have the same problem that i just pass through. so my dear if you any problem in your relationship,job or business please kindly contact this great spell caster on his email:
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        once more i say a big thanks to you for the work you have been doing in my life and everyone that you have help before and those that you will still help this year.
      Melissa Roy
  • Anonymous
    rory
    Jul. 12, 2007

    same exact thing happend to me, i even thought the same thing you thought, about sores not being in my mouth so its probably not it....

     

    i went to the free clinic with my friend and got it checked. It was so painful that i just wanted it to go away.

     

    It turns out that i do have herpes... I had sex with a guy that i love and i still love and it was...

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    same exact thing happend to me, i even thought the same thing you thought, about sores not being in my mouth so its probably not it....

     

    i went to the free clinic with my friend and got it checked. It was so painful that i just wanted it to go away.

     

    It turns out that i do have herpes... I had sex with a guy that i love and i still love and it was also my first time...

     

    my advice is just to go get it checked out, its really not the end of the world if you do have it... all you can do it take the medicine and deal with it....

     

    but going to a free clinic is your best bet, esp. if you dont want your mom to kno... cause i didnt want mine to know because i know she would be mad, and she still donesnt know because free clinics keep things confidencial.... so dont trip and get it checked before anything gets worse..

  • Anonymous
    I hear ya
    Jun. 23, 2007

    The person who wrote the last comment about masturbating and being to young blah blah. First off, learn how to spell. Second, in this generation people have sex at young ages, get over it. It's people like you that make it hard for girls like her to seek advice or to learn about safe sex. you make them scared and intimidated to talk to anyone.


    but my advice...

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    The person who wrote the last comment about masturbating and being to young blah blah. First off, learn how to spell. Second, in this generation people have sex at young ages, get over it. It's people like you that make it hard for girls like her to seek advice or to learn about safe sex. you make them scared and intimidated to talk to anyone.


    but my advice to you girl, is tell your mom, no becuase it could infect her (cuz it can't) but because she can help you. also, it could very well be a yeast infection. If you shave, the bumps could be in grown hair... so don't sweat it doll.

  • Anonymous
    chrissie no lumps
    Jun. 19, 2007
    why are you having sex at that young age and i spose it is with an older man he needs his nob choped off if so go to doctors and get blood test and tell your mum this is important that she knows to it can infected your family if you have been masterbating and have touched ur eyes u will be infected in ur eyes and will make u go blind so do us all a favour shut...
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    why are you having sex at that young age and i spose it is with an older man he needs his nob choped off if so go to doctors and get blood test and tell your mum this is important that she knows to it can infected your family if you have been masterbating and have touched ur eyes u will be infected in ur eyes and will make u go blind so do us all a favour shut your legs for the time been and tell ur mum and dont masterbate and use protection u idiot
    • Anonymous
      a reader
      Oct. 02, 2007
      To "Chrissie with no lumps" in reply to her masturbating and too young for sex comments.A brave 14yr old child having the balls to ask for help from other woman has unfortunately had some big advice from you....to do "you" a favour and keep her legs shut!! People like you need to avoid councelling jobs or imposing...
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      To "Chrissie with no lumps" in reply to her masturbating and too young for sex comments.A brave 14yr old child having the balls to ask for help from other woman has unfortunately had some big advice from you....to do "you" a favour and keep her legs shut!! People like you need to avoid councelling jobs or imposing your personal opinions on young ladies whom need genuine advice...not put downs from perfect no lumps.Have you checked yourself lately,karma comes around!!!!!!! So RUDE LADY!!!!!  keep masturbating!!
    • Anonymous
      Blur
      Sep. 12, 2011

      Sorry but alot of people probably wont like what I say because it falls on the tough love side.  A brave 14 yr old girl would do the right thing and tell her mom and get help the right way.  This is somthing you go to the doctor for, not ask on the internet where anybody could answer.  Get your bumps under control and understand the disease threw...

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      Sorry but alot of people probably wont like what I say because it falls on the tough love side.  A brave 14 yr old girl would do the right thing and tell her mom and get help the right way.  This is somthing you go to the doctor for, not ask on the internet where anybody could answer.  Get your bumps under control and understand the disease threw a professional.

    • Anonymous
      SJM
      Nov. 30, 2007
      why are you so down on this person..what gives you the right to call someone else a name when you know nothing about this person...you must be feeling really bad that you didn't keep your legs shut and wanting to cover your mistakes up by pointing the fingers at someone else. I agree that she should find an adult that she can trust and talk to.. to get...
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      why are you so down on this person..what gives you the right to call someone else a name when you know nothing about this person...you must be feeling really bad that you didn't keep your legs shut and wanting to cover your mistakes up by pointing the fingers at someone else. I agree that she should find an adult that she can trust and talk to.. to get help...as for you..you just need to get help with your attitude. This site is to help people..not make them feel bad..do us all a favor and take your simple minded pea brain somewhere else.....
    • Anonymous
      Michelle
      Aug. 11, 2008

      Thank you for putting that woman in her place.  We all have made mistakes in our lives and sometimes need some advice to help motivate us to make the right choices.  I appreciate when someone like yourself defends a person who needs help and is just asking for advice.  It's hard enough to ask without some ignorant person trying to put someone...

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      Thank you for putting that woman in her place.  We all have made mistakes in our lives and sometimes need some advice to help motivate us to make the right choices.  I appreciate when someone like yourself defends a person who needs help and is just asking for advice.  It's hard enough to ask without some ignorant person trying to put someone down. 

    • Anonymous
      a friend
      Dec. 01, 2007
      this girl is reaching out for help.so why are you putting her down? people make mistakes. you should already know that.insted of putting her down just give her advice like everyone else.i'm 14 and i know how hard it is to stay sex free.your boyfriend is telling you "i love you.come on it's o.k to do it" and your friends are...
      RHMLucky777
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      this girl is reaching out for help.so why are you putting her down? people make mistakes. you should already know that.insted of putting her down just give her advice like everyone else.i'm 14 and i know how hard it is to stay sex free.your boyfriend is telling you "i love you.come on it's o.k to do it" and your friends are telling you it's good.please just be strong and go tell your parents.i whis the best for you.
    • Anonymous
      N~H
      Mar. 16, 2008
      Its ppl like you that make it soo difficult to come out with an std of any kind..u should be trying to help our young onez and critisizing them is not gonna do anything but make them feel bad about themselves...at least she's asking for info when all these other people don't care and just pass it on to anybody...
    • Anonymous
      your mama
      Jul. 25, 2008

      well let me start off by saying you may not have any lumps

       but you sure do sound like you have something stuck up your ass.

      who are you to judge anyone. you act as if your a person who has

      never made a mistak in your life. why don't you take your unhappy

      ass out and get a life, because obviously you have nothing better to

      do than but down people looking...

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      well let me start off by saying you may not have any lumps

       but you sure do sound like you have something stuck up your ass.

      who are you to judge anyone. you act as if your a person who has

      never made a mistak in your life. why don't you take your unhappy

      ass out and get a life, because obviously you have nothing better to

      do than but down people looking for help. so fuck you. maybe you

      need to get laid.

    • Anonymous
      Anonymous
      Aug. 12, 2008

      Of course shes an idiot, shes only 14!! You don't have to treat her like one!! She posted her problems on this site for help NOT critisim!!!!!! I totaly agree with the dude having his nob choped off because more than likley he was older WAY older but thats what happens when your a naive 14 year old! You did not had to call her an idiot. I'm sure she already...

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      Of course shes an idiot, shes only 14!! You don't have to treat her like one!! She posted her problems on this site for help NOT critisim!!!!!! I totaly agree with the dude having his nob choped off because more than likley he was older WAY older but thats what happens when your a naive 14 year old! You did not had to call her an idiot. I'm sure she already feels like one for contracting a disease!

    • Anonymous
      Melanie
      Aug. 12, 2008

      Hey chrissie with all kinds of lumps... Why don't you try being a good person for once and your attitude wouldn't  seem like its contracted an STD!!! She posted on this site for help not to be brought down by a bitch like you! Take a long look in the mirror before you crawl of your thrown to insult a 14 year old girl!!!!! You self esteem must be really...

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      Hey chrissie with all kinds of lumps... Why don't you try being a good person for once and your attitude wouldn't  seem like its contracted an STD!!! She posted on this site for help not to be brought down by a bitch like you! Take a long look in the mirror before you crawl of your thrown to insult a 14 year old girl!!!!! You self esteem must be really low to insult some that you don't even know thats trying to reach out for help!

      Why r u even on this site? To boost your little ego?

    • Anonymous
      Anonymous
      Aug. 29, 2008

      You should really be ashamed of yourself for talking down to this girl. Right now she needs help and understanding. That's what she's reaching out for. She doesn't need criticism from self righteous idiots like yourself. You have some serious self esteem issues that you need to deal with. So go find help and stop criticizing others in an attempt to make...

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      You should really be ashamed of yourself for talking down to this girl. Right now she needs help and understanding. That's what she's reaching out for. She doesn't need criticism from self righteous idiots like yourself. You have some serious self esteem issues that you need to deal with. So go find help and stop criticizing others in an attempt to make yourself feel better. Also..... You have no clue how ignorant you are. If she does have herpes she can't spread it to her family from general contact. It's called an STD for a reason!!!!  So climb down off your high horse, grow a brain, do some research, and stop preaching your ignorance. True she shouldn't be having sex at her age, but she doesn't need you criticizing her because she has.

       

      Now as for you Kate..... The best advice I can give you is to be strong. I contracted herpes almost 4 years ago from my ex girlfriend who had been cheating on me. I've never had an outbreak myself, but it is in my bloodstream. I know it's going to be hard, but you really should bit the bullet and go talk to your mom. Sure.... She will be mad at first, but I believe that in the long run she will be your strongest supporter. If you don't want her to know about it then you really need to go to a free clinic. Have someone you trust to take you there and get yourself tested. There is a chance that you are worrying yourself needlessly. It might not be herpes at all, but if it is then you need to find out now before it gets worse. Be strong girl..... There are plenty of us out here who wish you the best. I will make one more suggestion to you though. If you do have it then you need to take vitamins on a daily basis and keep your immune system strong. The stronger your immune system the less effects you will have from it.

    • Anonymous
      Anonymous
      Sep. 13, 2008

      Listen Florence Nightingale, you are nothing but ignorant trash to be speaking to a young person who has the courage to deal with an unfortunate illness like this.  We are sexual beings and there's no need to feel embarrassed about one of the most basic elements in our life.  Worldwide the estimated number of people carrying the Herpes virus may be...

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      Listen Florence Nightingale, you are nothing but ignorant trash to be speaking to a young person who has the courage to deal with an unfortunate illness like this.  We are sexual beings and there's no need to feel embarrassed about one of the most basic elements in our life.  Worldwide the estimated number of people carrying the Herpes virus may be as high as 1 billion people. 

       

      Your comments are wholly inappropriate, completely out of line and offer this young person no help whatsoever.  There is a higher susceptibility to suicide among teens and your comments are one of the reasons that is true.  

       

      I suggest you see a therapist and discuss your severely dysfunctional attitude before you pass on your ignorance to other young people.

    • Anonymous
      Spencer Birman
      Mar. 08, 2009

      lol i have the same thing i gave it to my boyfriend tough luck

      hope it doesnt scab like sabrinas did

      xo

    • Anonymous
      chrissie has is...
      Aug. 13, 2009

      this chrissie sounds like a real whore

    • Anonymous
      shame on you fo...
      Feb. 11, 2010

      The child needs help not some one yelling at her and calling her names, you should be ashamed of yourself for attacking that girl that way. You are right she should not be doing those this, but it is because of people like you these kids are afraid to go to an adult. Your meanness to this girl is horrible and there is no reason for it. shame on you

  • Anonymous
    A friend
    Jun. 14, 2007
    If you haven't already figured this out, you should try a treatment for a yeast infection. A rash is often a symptom and it could be that's all it is. Always be sure to use the bathroom right after having sex - it will help to prevent this. Best of luck to you!
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Jun. 04, 2007
    I just recently went to the gyno and had my yearly done. I was 14 when I first started having sex. I am 17 now. I went almost 4 years without contracting anything. I have been with the same guy for almost 4 months now. We don't use protection, which was my first mistake. But I told my mom and she is here for me. You can go to a free clinic and get checked...
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    I just recently went to the gyno and had my yearly done. I was 14 when I first started having sex. I am 17 now. I went almost 4 years without contracting anything. I have been with the same guy for almost 4 months now. We don't use protection, which was my first mistake. But I told my mom and she is here for me. You can go to a free clinic and get checked out, but the best thing to do is tell your mom. I haven't had a break out in my mouth or down below, but it's in my blood system. I would go get checked out because it could be genital worts which are different from herpies. Tell your mom, she will help you out and be there for you. Trust me.
    • Anonymous
      Ricky
      Dec. 17, 2007
      is this a girls only place to talk about hepies, because i kissed my girl friend and about 4 days later i started to feel bumps on my bottom limp. is this bad?
    • Anonymous
      dont hav herpes
      Mar. 29, 2010

      well the chick u kissed probably had a cold sore on her lips and she passed it onto u. u can get creams and shit for that.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    May. 22, 2007

    It's a same this had to happend to you. We all make mistakes and sometimes we aren't too lucky and we make a mistake that stays with us forever. Remember this your parents maybe upset if they were to find out, it could always be worst. You are bless to be alive you are seeking help and you will be alright. Once you get pass the hard part you will realize...

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    It's a same this had to happend to you. We all make mistakes and sometimes we aren't too lucky and we make a mistake that stays with us forever. Remember this your parents maybe upset if they were to find out, it could always be worst. You are bless to be alive you are seeking help and you will be alright. Once you get pass the hard part you will realize your parents are your best friend because no matter what they will be there for you.


    • Anonymous
      Ammar
      Mar. 19, 2009

      Speak for your self buddy! Not all of us have parents made from dandy lines and sunshine!

    • Anonymous
      hh
      Apr. 08, 2009

      well said!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    May. 07, 2007
    I have the same thing you do and i was lucky to have a close adult friend that i asked to take me to the doctor. She knew how i felt because she was diagnosed with cervical cancer a while back. except it wasn't my fault i got herpies, I was raped when i was 10.I'm 13 now and my  adult friend is the only one who knows exactly what happened. Hang in...
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    I have the same thing you do and i was lucky to have a close adult friend that i asked to take me to the doctor. She knew how i felt because she was diagnosed with cervical cancer a while back. except it wasn't my fault i got herpies, I was raped when i was 10.I'm 13 now and my  adult friend is the only one who knows exactly what happened. Hang in there, you'll make it through one way or the other.
    • Anonymous
      Jessie
      Jan. 30, 2009

      It's hard to tell if you have herpes or not but the best way to know is to get tested. Heres a list of free clinics that you can go to to get tested all private.

    • Anonymous
      Jessie
      Jan. 30, 2009

      It's hard to tell if you have herpes or not but the best way to know is to get tested. Heres a list of free clinics that you can go to to get tested all private.

  • BrendanS
    Mar. 20, 2007

    katelynashlee:

     

    I would first recommend that you review the website http://www.healthcentral.com/genital-herpes/introduction-000052_2-145.html, which outlines the timeline of symptoms common to genital herpes. Also, you might find http://www.healthcentral.com/genital-herpes/understanding-genital-herpes-2518-143.html rather helpful because...

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    katelynashlee:

     

    I would first recommend that you review the website http://www.healthcentral.com/genital-herpes/introduction-000052_2-145.html, which outlines the timeline of symptoms common to genital herpes. Also, you might find http://www.healthcentral.com/genital-herpes/understanding-genital-herpes-2518-143.html rather helpful because it will provide you with a generalized scientific background of herpes. I have recently forwarded your inquiry to our medical expert, who may be able to provide you with a more concrete diagnosis.

     

    Hope this is helpful,

    BrendanS 

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