I'm 21 just found out that I have herpes (30 Sept 08). I'm accepting the fact I have it. My boyfriend is very supportive and he's my rock right now, he doesn't have it. I'm still in the stage of finding information about what I should and shouldn't do with this "gift" I have. Also how to keep my long term partner from getting my "gift". If you have any insight for I'd love to hear from you!