I had a similar situation happen-the guy I was with didn't tell me he had herpes and when I got it, he left.  That guy will get his karma.  If you have met a man that you have fallen in love with, it is a good idea to tell him.  I know that this will be extremely difficult.  Pick a private place-go for a walk.  He will respect you for telling him-it shows that you have integrity (un like those who gave it to us!)  I am sure that he will appreciate your honesty.  Friendship, Love, and companionship are what real relationships are about.  You may even discover that he has it himself.  I felt the same way as you in the beginning, that I would never meet anyone again who would accept me. People can surprise you in good ways.  Ironically, I met the love of my life because I got herpes.  If it didn't happen to me, I think I would have continued on my path of falling for jerks.  Remember, there are good people in the world.  Don't sacrifice the chance to have a relationship because you are afraid-you deserve better than that.  There is light at the end of the tunnel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.