Monday, March 21, 2011
I just found out 4days ago that i have g.herpes. I been with the same partern for 5yrs. He cheated on me more then once. We break up get back togather. I loved and still do love him. He my soulmate. Sad to say but i got it from him that hurt me more than anything. Now when we found out he said we will be ok and we will find a way to make it. But i dont want to live like this. I want a normal life. I feel m like my world has ended. How do i go on from here
Without honesty, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no relationship. A soul mate is someone wants more good for the other person than he (she) wants for himself and will do anything to look out for his partner's best interest. When herpes was withheld from me, I found myself constantly wondering what else was he was hiding from me and the relationship deteriorated fairly quickly. I never took legal action against him to cover my medical expenses within the two years requied by my state's torte law. I have frequent outbreaks after five years and expensive to treat.
Herpes comes with life long issues. If the frequency of outbreaks decrease, one can deal with it better and move on fairly quickly. With herpes, you are more susceptable to HIV or hepatitis. With a cheating partner, you may be gambling with your health even further.