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I fully understand, I will have to look for that site again, it was by accident that I found it and did not bookmark it. I will try and have it to you before the weekend.   It took me three  trips from sydney to melbourne, to tell the long time guy face to face, its one thing over the sms,but to face him and tell of the drugging, your confidence does not exsist. Please relax, stressing about it will bring on out breaks, the doctors will tell you many things, but from experience, major stress will do it.   The next part, was knowing if I meet anyone new, I would have to tell them and re-live it all over again, a record of a time I want to forget,has to be repeat. It is the most shameful thing. But I have spoken to the oposite sex annd they are happy to usea condon, they were more then greatful about me having the guts to tell them up front.   To make you laugh, to my male friends, I am a mate with tits, just not f-able, so  this makes them more comfortable.You have to find a way to find that comfortzone again, the truth and a laugh.I have had it since september 2006, so I have had plenty of time.