Thank you very much for taking the time to help me. You will never believe what is happening now! We both got tests shortly after I got diagnosed with herpes. He tested negative for Herpes, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia as well. However was told to retest in 3 months. I have the type 2  genital herpes and the type 1 in my mouth as well. I saw his actual test results. But, Now I have a new problem!!! I just got diagnosed with Pelvic Inflammatory disease last week!!!! My doctor told me it is a sexually transmitted disease and most likely  I had sex with someone with  Gonorrhea or Chlamydia!!!!! I still have only had sex with my boyfriend!!!!!!

I also had negative tests for Gonorrhea and Chlamydia when We were both tested!

My Dr. says it takes 10 days for person to develop the symptoms. 10 days for him? Then 10 days for me? Boyfriend swears he has not cheated!!! I made him go get more testing done. I'm waiting for his Gonorrhea and Chlamydia tests to come back. My doctor thinks he had to have cheated!! but, I read online there is a possiblility that I can get PID from normal things like Douching etc. Small  chance. I'm living with my boyfriend and we talk about getting married etc. I don't trust him!! I'm miserable every day!! I told him last week the only way I will stay in this relationship at this point is if his tests are negative and he takes a professional lie detector test!!!! He agreed to all of of this!! I scheduled his polygraph test for this week!! P.S. he was out of town on business approx. 4 weeks ago for 2.5 weeks!! He also has a history of sleeping with escort prostitiutes!! I found this out looking through his email from 2 or more years ago! He of course had to admit it to me! That was done months ago. I went home for 3 days during Dec. to see my family and he contacted an escort online and asked about her services. When  I found this out he cried, and begged me to understand. HE SWEARS HE NEVER MET WITH HER OR ANY OTHER WOMEN ESCORTS IN OVER 2 YEARS NOW!  He said he was just horny and looking at her picturs and regretted contacting her afterwards.EVENTHOUGH HE HAS HAD SEVERAL ESCORTS HE CONTACTED IN NOV. 2007 BEFORE HE MOVED HERE TO fLORIDA!

HE CLAIMS HE HAS ONLY HAD SEX WITH ME AND THAT ONE OTHER WOMAN IN OVER 2 YEARS !!! I REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND OTHER THEN THIS HE IS AN AMAZZING PERSON!! IF HE PASSES THE LIE DETECTOR TEST I PLAN  TO STAY WITH HIM.

I can ask 5 questions. I'm working on what they should be. Feel free to tell me anything. Thank you so much for helping me and caring!!

I think your doctor is right. He had to have cheated. No way around it. I think he carries the herpes virus but dont show no symtems. I believe u said u have had outbreaks already. If he sleeps with u i gurantee u he has herpes. He would not sleep with u if u had outbreaks cause he would risk himself catching it. Trust me i know this. I have herpes for about 6 months now. So im learning alot of the ins and outs of the disease. I am not sure about the pelvic disease. I believe your dr is right though he would test positive for chamindia or somethign that caused the pelvic disease. Um did u test positive for herpes or negative i cant recall?Mabye he just contracted the disease and thats why hes showin negative to. Hes just not showing signs he has it.Good for u that u r giving him a lie dector test. I already think 100 percent hes goin to fail it.

I tested positive for herpes once I had that first outbreak around Feb. His Lie detector test is tomorrow wednesday night. His std results also come back tomorrow!!

please update me on the lie detector test & the std test to.

Hi, Thanks for asking. He passed the polygraph test with flying colors. The examiner said he was telling the truth no doubt about it. He hasn't cheated on me since the one night stand months ago. We weren't commited to dating each other and no one else but, it still was hard on me. Also his std tests came back negative. I must be one of the woman who get pid from another resource other then stds. Still waiting on my test results.

Alright. First off when did he sleep with the one night stand?IT can take up to 3 months for him to turn positive?I mean his antibodies will take that long. If he has a previous infection of type 1 on his mouth it could take even longer to turn his antibodies positive. So even if was negative i would make him retest again. I am glad he passed the pollygraph.

It was November 14th 2008 and I was first diagnosed with herpes in february of this year. He had a test in early March and it said there were no antiboides present in his blood stream.

The dude that i got it from i think was some where in nov to. Thats when i started showing signs but didnt pick up on it. I thought i had low iron. I got std tested on jan 16th. I first noticed signs of the type 2 on the genitals around the 4th of jan of 08. I think i also have type 2 on my mouth as well thats the signs i started pickin up in nov. He had been clean when i first started sleeping with him i think he slept with someone else to.