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Monday, September 15, 2008 PMFLY asks

Q: How long can you have herpes without knowing?

I have been with my BF for 5 months now and have a very active sex life-lots and lots of oral.  I am a realitively healthy 32 year old girl and am very aware of my body and any changes that occur.  last week I thought I had a yeast infection and some sores on the outside of my vagina appeared.  This seemed unusual and it was not going away - hurting when I would go to the washroom.  My bf and I went to emergeny and the dr. said that it was herpies - did a swab and do not have the results back as of yet.  I have an appt with my dr. this week but so unsure and have so many questions.  Is it possible that I had this well before i started dating him?  I never have had any symptions before and it has been 5 months.  He does get the rare coldsore-once a year or less.....would you think this is type 1 or 2?

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9/17/08 3:23am

PMFLY,

 

It sounds like Genital Herpes. The same thing happened to me, same symptoms. People can have herpes their whole life and NEVER show ANY symtoms. It's very hard to trace back to where you got it from. Some people have one outbreak their entire life, some people have an outbreak once a month! It has a lot to do with your stress levels. If you're under a lot of stress, then your more likely to get more outbreaks. Just remember, if you do have herpes, it's not the end of the world sweetheart! There are ways of preventing spreading it to your partners. You can still have babies and lead a normal life. Good luck at your Doctors visit! If you need anyone to talk to, you can email me. (0:

 

Chelsea

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herpes aint shit.try being a fat ugly bitch.I think I might of got herpes along time ago.Only got one outbreak about 8 years ago,never had another.Dont know what it was.So forget about herpes,try being fat and nasty and cant find someone to be with you,its really depressing.Find a cure for that.

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5/25/10 4:01pm

i live this one! Preach girl!! Herpes is not as bad as people say it is, just take care of ureself and everything will be fine.

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5/27/10 2:18pm

fuck your life. you know gyms are out now? every fatass is doing it

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11/16/11 8:26am

lose some weight and i think you'll be happier

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8/ 4/09 10:10pm

I think I contracted herpes about one year ago, but am still in denial about getting tested.  Can people have one outbreak their whole life with the rash on their genital forever, or does it go away.  I am stressing about when my second outbreak will happen, or if it ever happens.  I hope not.  I am thinking that herpes is really bad.  Can you give me some help please.  How long have you had it and is it all that bad?  Can herpes go away for like five to ten years and then come back worse than ever?  Please help!!!!

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2/24/10 12:47am

What should i do?Frown Some times i feel like its the end of the world cause i have herpes .

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8/ 4/10 7:48pm

hey chelsea im a young gurl that is 19years old and i dnt have no kids and i have a wonderful boyfriend that is 23 years old with no kids i planned on jus living my life and try to be somebody well i just want to say that i just find out that i have hepers about a 7 ago and im very scared and i just feel like i just cant live with this something that haves me crying every day not sleep right are not eating right ..i just wnt to know if since i have it this is somethign im ny blood and if i was dating another male i can pass it own to him...is it some that is can go away and never come and just live your life are is it always going to stay with me in side my body until god calls mr home

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5/27/10 2:16pm

you sucked his dick too much and now you're infected. he ate you out, i'm sure he is too.

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