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Q: My boyfriend is a paramedic and came in contact with a patient with herpes.

My boyfriend recently had a patient with a severe case of herpes due to his HIV. The patient was in much pain and kept touching himself and touching everything in the back of the rig. During this time, my boyfriend had all of his usual protection for his job, however when they got him to the hospital, he de-gloved and began using the computer to put in the patients information. The patient had to sign his signature on the screen and I guess he left it wet (possibly from open sores?). My boyfriend kept on using the computer, but can't remember whether he physically touched the screen after, or if the patient had touched the rest of the computer. 

Fairly soon after my boyfriend decided to use the bathroom. It was an abnormally busy day so he had been holding his urine for a while. When he went to the bathroom HE DIDN'T WASH HIS HANDS before hand. Now this is extremely out of character for him, but he says he distinctly remembers not washing his hands and touching his penis to go to the bathroom. Now he is filled with anxiety that he may have passed the virus on to himself and me as well. He is not exhibiting any symptoms, but after reading some facts on the virus he might not need to. Last night my vagina began to itch, not having any burning when I'm urinating but definitely an itch. I may be psyching myself out as I was feeling fine and my vagina does itch like this from time to time depending on how much sugar I've been eating (which I've been eating a lot the past few days). He was exposed 8 days ago and neither of us have any blisters or pain, no fever etc. Is it possible he could have gotten it? Can it ONLY be transmitted if he had tears in his skin or can he get it just by touching his penis?

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7/ 7/09 4:55pm

Hi, you and your partner need to relax, with all his training, he is feeling bad enough as it is. I worked in a clinic with the aids farm, working around there blood in the eighties.

Your partner has to think onthe same lines as aids, I can not remember how long the disease serves out in the air. As he did not have blood contact, only the opening of the sores as this guy scratched. So if the lenght of time was great, that is good,as it should have died before he touched his penis. He will haveto find out that time factor and apply it to what he did.

 

But to be safe, he should have reported it to work that night, and they will treat you both according to rules. Which is good, as the treatment, most only have the sores iced off, but to cover the dna its about $1200.0 perevery 2-3 years, with stops the spreading and ptotects you and your partner.

 

Not many people can afford it. But his work cover will.

 

THINK POSITIVE, I belleive the timefactor will be on your side.

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7/11/09 9:00pm

Thank you very much for your help! I think the reason why he didn't do an exposure report was that it didn't occur to him until a few days later that he may have exposed himself to the virus. 

 

Unfortunately he seems to be suffering from Thrush. He's still scared because he's never had it before and he can't believe he'd get Thrush the same week as being possibly exposed to herpes. He's also scared since herpes can mimic the symptoms of a yeast infection. He originally planned on getting a blood test to see if he contracted the virus, but from what we read he might have to was up to 12 weeks for it to show up in his system. His penis is exhibiting signs of a yeast infection along with a fishy smell. He's also uncircumcised. He cleans himself very well, so he can't believe he has one. 

 

Anyway, I'm trying to stay positive! 

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7/12/09 1:28pm

If he got thrush, I think he is too busy with everythink he does, and you had better take a little time to maintain the both your lives. Has he filed the exposure claim, he does not have to write he got thrush down, he will be in moretroble if does get HSV2 if he has not filed a report. you must keep him claim, by not bringing up topic, the wearing of a condom is safe now, but it will only play more on his mind, 3 mths can take along time to go by,

but by not wearing a condom exposes you, you must decide how much you love this guy. Did he find out the timing of exposes to aids, asI believe time is on his side, by the you said things happened that night. The thrush has just blowen his mind, you have to watch that side of things, plus some positions between partners can bring on thrush, so you will have to work that one out as well.

 

I really do believe timing is on his side.

 

Plus get him a little bottle of hand wash, the one you do not need  water with, at first he will go through  it very quickly, but as time goes on he will slow down, but mmake sure he always has one, this will give him sense of caution

 

You can tell him this, In the clinic I worked in, we had a uni student wanting to higher her position, so wanted to take the blood from the aids guys, the boss read up and we will talk, theguys came in and off she went, thinking she had control, our nurse was running late, next might we hear the client yelling, I do not have that much blood to waste, we all came running, including the boss from upstairs, she took off and left us standing there with a puddle of blood about 3 foot by 3 foot, and spreading. The boss wallked straight through the blood, fixed the butterfly clip and took his blood, and helped him around his blood and out of the building.I am still looking at the blood, the boss came back, looked at me, and said how long will it take for you to clean it up, a lady from the heamo dept was standing behind me, all I could see was death on the floor, she said to the boss, not long with sue. She took over and we had the floor back to being sterlised in about 5 mins, as the other lady said, by the time I had brought by staring at it and not moving, the aids had already died,  being expose to the air for that time. We still through everything in the haz container, and everyones shoes had to be spread.

 

So this is why I believe he is ok.

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2/24/10 1:16pm

I figured I should finish this thread. My boyfriend is herpes free, it was just a yeast infection. 

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By Lu Lu— Last Modified: 11/01/10, First Published: 07/07/09