I contracted herpes last year. On my birthday, Oct. 24, 07 and never obtained another outbreak since. Neither has my ex (we just broke up so I'm aware of his body). Make it so bad... I contracted it from the pole at the stripclub because neither boyfriend or me was active before then. I don't know if it's possible that I don't have it anymore but I'm curious cuz its been close to a year w/o even a sign.

If I do have it should I tell my best friend because I'm seriously in love with him. He's an officer and we've been friends for two years and he wants to move out-of-state and to have kids, as do I. I don't know if I should tell him because I know its such a strong chance he'll rejected me.

Even though I'm 21 and really pretty, I don't know anyone who wants herpes even if they love the person. Please give me a little advice.