Reply to an Answer

hi... i can relate to you cause i lost my viginity to my current boyfriend of 6 years too... i got diagnosed last week with genital herpes, my boyfriend got himself urine tested today, and it came out negative... i can't believe it, cause i never had sexual contact with someone else. he never showed symptoms in all these years, and now i got it!!! i really want him to get a blood test or a culture sample.... i feel so miserable, after being so careful, for me there's no other way that i could get it than from him...  the doctor didn't even took a blood test which is crazy for me, stupid guy..... i have to talk to my boyfriend that he's gonna take other tests cause i also need to get my piece of mind! we are actually fighting now, cause he thinks i want him to have it! of course, i just wanna be a 100% sure, right? it is really so unfair. and i still can't accept the fact of having std! it's not just like having a headache, it's something you'll have to live with for the rest of your life... so please everyone, be careful and stay safe...