you must go to your doctor. Only he or she can determine if it is genital herpes. I have herpes and I contracted it from my exhusband when we was married. I control break outs by taking once daily Valtrex. You can only get a presciption from your doctor. Herpes can be passed even if your partner does not have any signs of a break out. Herpes can also be passed person to person by oral sex as well. The only way not pass it is to use condoms and the person that is a carrier or has herpes must take Valtrex once daily so that the will not get a break out. Women, especially, have more break outs because of hormal changes before your periods and because of stress. I urge you to please talk to you parent or someone that can get you to you doctor to be diagnosed and treated as soon as possilble. From a concerned Mom!