im 49 yrs old and have never had anything wrong. I was with my x husband for 25 yrs and he was faithful and so was I , then i left him and now have a faithful husband now and i did have two partners inbetween him. but i have a sore that looks like an ulcer i shaved down there and the hair is growing back thats when the sore came up. it is on the outside where i shaved. Im hoping for an ingrown infected hair. but they are testing me for herpes. I am devestated I know my hubby is faithful and so am i. I have been with him for 6 yrs now can I still have herpes when i am in a faithful marriage? i havent been with anyone else for 6 yrs. and never had any symptoms till now.