My wife has been tested positive for HSV 2 and I am not sure of what really happened. I have been with other women in the past 3 years or so, but since my wife and I have moved in together for the past 2 and half years I have had no sexual physical contact with any other women. We had unprotected sex frequently even throughout her pregnancy and thereafter and she was negative. During the time I had sexual intercourse with other women prior to moving in with my wife (unmarried then), I used a condom in every case.
My wife was tested negative a few months ago and she recently did the test again and she was positive. I am certain she has not been with anyone else and I am the one she is more likely to have contracted the infection from.
Is it possible to have had herpes for more than 2 years and not passed it on to her when we frequently had unprotected sex? if this is so can you explain why. I find it strange and mind boggling to have had herpes for so long and did not observe any symptoms, and more so, did not past it unto her until after 2 and half years of unprotected sex.