Dear Diane,

Thank you so much for your question. First, I think you'll find it very helpful to read "Genital Herpes: The Basics." You can also learn more about the symptoms, treatment and prevention of genital herpes here. 

Symptoms of genital herpes vary from person to person. It is possible to have genital herpes for years before noticing an outbreak. Some people may have no symptoms - but they can still spread herpes! Sometimes only very mild sores appear, but are mistaken for an insect bite or other skin problems. If you have HIV, a genital herpes infection can be worse.

Some people have severe symptoms of genital herpes, such as many painful blisters and sores. An initial outbreak of genital herpes usually brings about symptoms within two weeks of having sexual contact with an infected person and can last from two to three weeks. 

Finally, while there is no guaranteed method of preventing the recurrence of herpes outbreaks, here are some tips to help relieve pain and discomfort. Read Ten Ways to Manage Your Symptoms and Relieve Discomfort.

I hope I was of help, please continue to post with any other questions you may have.

Warm regards,

Madison March