ok so here is my story
i was at a party and this girl gave me head.
She looked clean and did not have any sores on her lips.
After 3 weeks when i was masturbating i used shampoo as lube
Than the next day i had blisters on my scrotum and 1 on my penis.
HSV-1 or HSV-2 i dont no. i think it could have been from the shampoo but im not sure. I just came back from the docs and he said that it could have been from the shampoo or her but he said he can not give me a blood test to see if i have herpes. he said only in the states he can do that. it has been 2 months and i have not had a nother outbreak. When will i no if i had herpes. 3 other girls have given me head after that one girl and after the blisters formed, and they never got any sores on there lips could this be herpes or just the shampoo rash ? looked kinda of like thishttp://babyboomeradvisorclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/genitalherpes2.jpg
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Q: do i have herpes?
You may have herpes. In fact, it sounds to me like you do. However, it makes me wonder if you got it from the oral sex. You can carry the herpes virus around for a long time without ever having symptoms... so realistically, you could have had sex with an infected girl months ago, and the symptoms could be showing up just now. However, you certainly may have gotten it from the girl... and yes, it could even be some sort of allergic reaction to the shampoo.
If I were you, first I'd put my sexual activites on hold. If you DO have herpes, you're risking spreading it to these other girls (who I'm assuming you haven't said "I MIGHT have herpes" to) just for a bj, which is a weak move. Secondly, get tested. If your doctor won't do it, there's plenty of online anonymous testing options. You may have to pay for it out of pocket, but they're not that expensive and you'll get the job done. If you test positive for HSV-2, then it's likely that you didn't get it from the girl that gave you the bj. If you test positive for HSV-1, then it's likely that you DID get it from her. Either way, you'll know. Third, try another masturbation session with the shampoo. If you have another outbreak, then you'll know that it's connected.
In the meantime, you owe it to these girls to tell them about your situation. They deserve to know whether or not they have the disease, so that they don't risk spreading it.
I know what you mean... but really, get tested. No need to freak out if you don't have it, right? Besides, if you do have it, it's not so bad. You can still have sex, have kids, and do everything else that anyone without herpes can do... you'll just have to be careful and make sure you're with someone that actually loves and cares about you before you move onto sex. That's not a bad thing, anyway.
So shake it off and man up. Get it over with so that you can move forward.
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well this was my first BJ i have never had sex before so it could only be from the BJ or the shampoo im going to try the shampoo again. I keep having break downs tho where i just start crying i cant handle this.