Ok so i had an encounter about 14 weeks about with a girl and the condom had split during intercourse. I was worried to death that it was hiv and was getting so much symptoms but alot were most probably due to anxiety and stress. What i'm most concerned about is the swollen glands i've had which came 2 weeks after the encounter and still slightly swollen today (in the neck). My uretha is also abit swollen and i also had gotten thrush from this girl which recurred 2 or 3 times. I've also been feeling this itchy sort of feeling which feels like ants crawling on me. It hasn't just been in the groin but all over my body it';s very annoying and creepy. I sometimes feel a dull ache in the testicles and minor stinging like pains in the uretha but theyre faint and arent continuous but the only thing is i DONT have any lesions/???? my uretha is also swollen and i feel a slight stinging needle like pain which lasts a few seconds then gos and will keep coming back time to time, severe muscle spasms/nerve twitching all over. could this be herpes without showing??????? i've had numerous tests over the 3 months as i was 100% convinced i had hiv and have tested out to 3 months being negative, i've also had std tests and out to 3months all negative but i can't get herpes test as they don't do it without any lesions can you please help me 
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Q: HERPES OR WHAT?? PLEASE HELP :(
ok, you really need to take a chill pill. Your emotions, and anxity will set most of the systoms off, first change doctors, second do not go in and let all this out, just simply say, you had unprotected sex several times with one girl, yes you will be told off for it, but you will get what you want, then simply ask for a hsv1-2 test please.
if he asks, why have you not seen your normal doctor, tell him you are married, hell it makes their day, cheating hubby, getting caught, but you will get your test. as you said, it was 14weeks ago, icthy, glands are up, and she told you when you split she had hsv2.
you will have your answer i an a week
easy,, but full of lies,, you get what you want,, then you can calm down and not have a heart attack, next time use more lube, better condoms. you put it on, as some females have them with holes already in them, so they can fall pregant. it takes alll kinds, this is a country girl trick for entramptnent, which has been in use in the city now for over 20yrs.
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