I must by saying that it will be much more difficult to tell him now. I have had it for about 10 years and have been guilty of telling my partner just before we had sex. Who is going to back out at that point? What man anyway? I have told the last two potential partners way in advance and I do feel better about that. But there is a lot more required talk and a lot more hesitation. I don't know your age or your situation but you must be honest. Chances are you have not passed anything along. Chances are he has already been exposed at one point. Look at the statistics. He has a right to know though and get a blood test to see if the point is moot and you don't have to carry the guilt. You probably caught this from someone who was not brave enough or responsible enough (or didn't know). He or she should have been responsible. That is where you pick up. Be responsible.  It's just part of our lives now. Another thing to deal with. "Treat others as you would like to be treated". Not a religious comment - just a fact.

Be honest. If there is a real connection, or if you're lucky and in love - you have to have honesty.

B