I have been tested in the past for std's and never been diagnosed with anything. I even request to be tested for HIV since my husband had a vasectomy I just want to be sure he isn't cheating on me and giving me any diseases. Can anyone please help me. I accused him of cheating on me. He blew up and called me a liar? In front of our children 17 year old daughter and 12 year old son. I only worry because he never talks. He has the worst communication skills its embaressing. I wish I knew him well enough after all these years to say Yes or No he wouldn't do that to me.Hoenstly I dont know what to do. The doctor only said I have had it atleast 2 months. what the hell does that mean. Then he said I could have infected myself if I have H1 I said I haven't had a cold sore in years and I don't think thats how I got H2. The look on the nurses face really concerned me, so I called my husband but he didn't answer so I left a message and he attacked me when I got home. Verbally