We are wanting to be sexual active with one another but also want to be careful he doesn't catch herpes. I am not taking any meds at the moment for herpes and haven't had an outbreak in over a year. I perform oral sex on him only. I guess that is safe since I have never had any cold sores or been diagnosed with herpes on my mouth. Please let me know what the risk for sure is for him catching this by oral sex and with a condom. Thanks.


