well they are yet to find out. they have been to a couple doctors and all have said herpes but we find out for sure tomorrow. i am going to get checked this week as well.

but it is hsv2

Sorry I sometimes sense these things.What ever you do, at this moment you are still a couple, Tomorrow, I want you both to sit and talk, Thing about how you feel, really, taking away the blame for the moment. You did not know, How long were you with your former partner. As it seems he did not know he had them himself. But he made the wrong decission to have unprotected sex, and this is now poor luck. If you were withhim for a year or so, he is a cheating men, so if your anger gets to you take itouton him by having him charge with passing on a sti, HSV2, so  then therefore he might just do the same to the female who gave it to him. As soon as people releasize they just simply can't no tjust spread this around asa flu. Now your new guy, you both have hsv2, by taking action action on the ex, might show him you care, enough, and you 2 mightbe able to stay together. There are alot of positive reasons to stay together. !st, you do not need to practice safe sex. Sex can be normal for you both. But do not feel trapped, to stay together, as the hurt is hard, especially for life. If you 2 decide to have a child, its ok, the child will be born with an immunity to HSV2, but the birth will be a c-section, so your blood does not want to mix with the baby.

But the hurt is what you two have to get through first. Forgiveness isthe key between you, knowing that you never wanted to give it to him, but you had no idea what your ex was up to. If you were only with him a short time,  Please have him charged as his anger for getting it, may have turned into revenge, to give it to any girl he meets, thiis way, he will be stoped and get the help he is needing. its alot for know, but do not leave it to long. Also find  out about the guy before him, just in case itis you who has been carring it and not knowing, You will figure it outsooner or later. but pay as much attention tothisguy, having HSV2 and a partner with it, means things can be more normal than you think, save this and you can move forward, communication is the key, to opening the feelings, for the healing to begin. But behind the screens, find the truth,it will save you.

well im not with anyone right now i am just close with my last partner and they told me what was up. we have both been scared all week about this but so far they have not got any results of their outbreak being herpes which is great. but thank you for the advice. i did like you said and sat adn talked to him and i think it really helped. im not mad at him if he did give it to me because i know with or without herpes im still gonna make it in life but he on the other hand is not so good. i dont know how to re assure him that i dont hate him and that there is no need for him to do anything incredibley stupid.

I know its against the rules, of law.But I still speed. Buy him some good condoms and flavoured lube, give him the line that, if the girl gives him a head job without the condom he will come to fast, so no condom, no head job. Or he could just satisfy them only, if he always looks for anything different,and finds it, no sex even with protection, other wise have protected sex all the time, and do not tell them. But keep in mind, every shower look, or go to  www.positivesingles.com.au   and get a patner who has it, he may need closure on who gave it to him, he has to go through the feelings first.  I know I need closeure to, but I will not be nice.