No, it is not for sure...just ask my husband of 9+ years...he's still virus free and we have an active sex life. But.....you need to get checked about a month or so after you were exposed. Was your partner having an outbreak at the time of your encounter? If so, your risk of infection is much greater. If they were not having an outbreak, you are not likely to be infected..but it's not impossible. There is something called the shedding phase that dr.s say can be a time when the virus is transmitted between partners. I don't understand that phase much, but I think that they really don't know all there is to know about the virus. Bottom line...get a blood test to determine if your body has developed antibodies against the virus...this indicates that you have been infected by the virus.
well i hadunprotected sex with a women that i just found out that had it. i heard she had a outbreak, and when i got home 2 days later i got the herpes simplex virus on my lip. i thought i got herpes so i went to the doctor they told me it was just a virus and if i take the medicine it will kill it. well she gave me oral too so do i have herpes even though i dont have bumps down there or anything like that?
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