Ok this is very hard for me to speak about because i just found out yesterday that my girlfriend just gave me herpes! With two females in a relationship it's hard to protect yourself during sexual incounters, she herself found out the same time i did. We have been dating for a coupe months and have now made our relationship official as of a week ago. She's never been in this situation before, nor have I but she is now getting so freaked out she feels like she needs to make the decision to leave me and not mess with me anymore. I on the other hand feel as if she should stick with me and we should work things out! She's a very stubborn and headstrong individual and I'm not sure how to convince her that we can work through this together! Please help me!!!